S3 1. Consent (with Dr. Betty Martin)

In the first episode of a new series, Diggory Waite and his accredited sex therapist mother Cate Campbell explore the ‘Wheel of Consent’ with its developer Dr. Betty Martin, who also outlines how we can implement the Wheel’s concepts into our everyday interactions as well as teaching us how we can apply the consensual practices with our partners by playing the 3-minute game and how with a simple solo exercise, we can wake up our hands to pleasure. 

Our mailbag will return in next week’s episode where we'll be discussing 'Pegging' with the wonderful Zachary Zane. Make sure you send in your sex or relationship questions to our accredited therapist Cate who will answer them on the pod! You can email them to podcasts@hattrick.com or by DMing us on Instagram - @realsexedpod

You can find Dr Betty Martin and her book ‘The Art of Giving and Receiving’ at https://bettymartin.org/

You can also find accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/?p=367

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Reading List:

The Consent Checklist by Meg John Barker https://www.rewriting-the-rules.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/Consent-Checklist-1.pdf

Beres, M.A. (2007) “Spontaneous” sexual consent: An analysis of sexual consent literature. Feminism & Psychology, 17;1, 93-108.

Campbell, C. (2020) “Sexual Consent”. In: Contemporary Sex Therapy, Abingdon: Routledge, 145-151.

Greenspan, R. (2017) Dancing with the dominant: learning consent with kink and bondage, University Wire Service, February 13th, 1.

Hancock, J. (2021) Can We Talk About Consent? Frances Lincoln Children’s Books.

Kornhaber, S. (2019) Cruising in the age of consent. The Atlantic, 324;1, 96-103.

Watching & listening List:

Betty Martin: The Wheel of Consent

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=auokDp_EA80

Betty Martin: How to Play the 3-Minute Game

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_KCzpNBNbVM

The New Age of Consent (BBC, 2018): Jameela Jamil asks how we should navigate consent

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/b0bh4361

When "Yes" Means "No", the Truth about Consent | Joyce Short

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=imr5ZiAY_ao&list=LL&index=2

What can Sexting teach us about Consent? | Amy Adele Hasinoff https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LdDRv2f2dFc

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