Bullying and Mental Health

This week we discuss bullying with our guest Chelsey Peat.  Chelsey is an advocate for those with facial differences due to Sturge Weber Syndrome.   A person that looks different is a prime target for bullies.  Bullying is often seen as a schoolyard issue, but its impact on mental health extends into adulthood. Bullied children face increased risks of anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem, with effects that can last a lifetime.

Impact of Bullying

Bullying occurs when a child uses physical or social power to hurt another. In the short term, it can cause anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, sleep issues, and suicidal thoughts. Long-term, bullying victims are at higher risk for anxiety disorders, depression, loneliness, and school avoidance. Bullies themselves may develop antisocial behaviors, and those who both bully and are bullied are at the highest risk for mental health issues like anxiety, depression, and substance abuse.

Responding to Bullying

Bullying can be physical, verbal, social, or virtual. Adults may not always witness it, but they can often see its effects, like a child avoiding school or friends. If you suspect bullying, don’t wait—talk to the child. Ask about their experiences and explore ways to help them feel safe. Encourage positive coping strategies, whether it's standing up for themselves or finding a trusted friend.

Bullying Prevention Strategies

Schools are required to have anti-bullying programs, yet many children still experience bullying. Punishment-based approaches are ineffective. Instead, fostering positive school environments and teaching social-emotional skills can help reduce bullying. Open communication at home is key; children need to know they can talk to trusted adults when they need help.

Conclusion

By supporting children emotionally, adults can help prevent bullying and its long-lasting effects on mental health.