00;00;00;00 - 00;00;07;14 Unknown I'd be more flirty, like, in my words of choice. Okay. Nice ass.

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00;00;13;24 - 00;00;44;09 Unknown And like that, we are back. Hey, guys. Welcome to back to the podcast. Welcome to the podcast on every Wednesday. You're welcome. What's the first topic? I already forgot. You said how long should you wait to ask a girl out? Yeah. Or ask a person out. Right. Or a question for this week. What's your impression if someone asks you like.

00;00;44;12 - 00;01;12;09 Unknown Like a five hours after that? Yeah. Like how long you should wait before you ask a girl out? Yeah. Like you. You notice that you like. Yeah. What do you guys. An hour. I wait till she walks away, then I can. Then I call her. Isn't it like you just immediately ask them out in the moment? If if you're if you're really feeling that feeling that kind of.

00;01;12;12 - 00;01;31;22 Unknown Yeah, yeah. But if there's a spark. It feels like love bonding. But some girls like. Oh what's that? What's love bombing? Love bombing is like when you're, You give so much going, so much love to someone at the beginning so that you can just grab them and steal them, you know, quick, you know? Oh, and that works.

00;01;31;26 - 00;01;49;06 Unknown Take no time. It works on me. So if you like, it works on you. You put some. That's cute. Yeah. As someone who didn't, get a lot of love as a kid. No, no, I got I got a lot of love. I got a lot of love as a kid. I'm just joking. Jesus. Okay, I'm just joking.

00;01;49;06 - 00;02;10;17 Unknown We love you, man. And try to kiss. I guess it works on me, too. Yeah. You should still love bombing. Oh. How long would you like? Wait till you ask someone out? I depends because I think for years. Four years is crazy. Yeah. Now, by then they would have probably, like, had their own kind of relationship. You don't get worried.

00;02;10;17 - 00;02;28;08 Unknown I'm like, stuck in the friendzone. Oh my God. Yeah. You get stuck in the friend zone if you wait too long. Definitely. Good lord, good Lord. Have you ever been in friendzone? I think so, yeah. You don't leave. You don't leave. What do you mean? This is how it happens to me. But I'll just leave. I'm like, okay, I'm not out here anymore.

00;02;28;10 - 00;02;47;06 Unknown Oh, I'm not. I'm gonna just an accessory to your kiss. I feel like if if it's, very cool, like platonic relationship, like, then it's. Then it's okay. Yeah. Then it's okay. But if it's just me having the goal of, like, if you're, like, actually wanted to date this girl now, bang. Yeah, I wanted to date this girl.

00;02;47;06 - 00;03;09;23 Unknown But then, you know, she doesn't see eye to eye, so I'm just gonna bolt. Yeah. Has there ever been a situation where your a friend zone like benefits you. Oh yeah. Of course it happens to girls more than guys I feel. Yeah I mean cause like girls do it if a girl. No, no, if a girl likes a guy and he's like, oh, I'm not sure yet.

00;03;09;26 - 00;03;30;18 Unknown So he just kind of uses that his advantage, like, okay, how about we do this? You know, girls do that to this flock and then that's it. You know, but yeah. Benefits. That's great. Wow. Yeah, I feel like. So girls are pretty straightforward. Like, if we want to friendzone someone, we just say it like, Yeah.

00;03;30;18 - 00;03;49;16 Unknown I don't think this is going to work. You know? Yeah, but guys take advantage. Then. Damn. Yeah, maybe. I guess because I can't see it from you. But I feel like girls take advantage in acts of acts of service. Like, sometimes if if, friends zone in a guy. But I know, but he brings you food. He can help me with something like.

00;03;49;16 - 00;04;07;07 Unknown Oh, can you fix that low? Can you do this for me in my fridge? And I know the guy will do it, you know, because I mean, I know he likes me, so I'm like, okay, that's true. Has there ever been a situation where you've been, like, played like that where like, oh, Carl likes me, so he'll do this for me?

00;04;07;09 - 00;04;24;10 Unknown I don't know, I probably wouldn't have noticed because I was just like, because you're a nice guy. I was like, I would have just like, anyway, that way. Is that a problem? Yeah, it is, but whatever. I think it'll be okay for the first minute. You'll be okay. You'll be sounding really far away gems in there. You did, but you did.

00;04;24;10 - 00;04;44;17 Unknown You did. Fuck. All right. Rewind. What did you say? Yeah. What do you think? What do you think? You got me nervous. Oh, good. I look, I like that. What do you think? Has there ever been a time you've been used like that? The friendzone. But, you know, I like her, so maybe she'll give me some kiss.

00;04;44;17 - 00;05;01;27 Unknown Kiss? If I bring her a burger or something, I can't remember. I don't know, like, I think, I think because maybe you don't even know. What is it? Yeah. I just don't know what to say to a nice man. Yeah, I just I would have done it anyway. Just like. Oh, here, here's, whatever you need. Whatever you ever think there's two.

00;05;01;28 - 00;05;26;16 Unknown Like, there's people in this world are just too kind for it. Yeah, Carl is one of them. Another buddy of mine, also one of them. So I'm not one of them. You think? Anyways, I'm drinking coffee. It's Monday, but, like, good thing the audience didn't hear you, like, speak earlier. I'm like, let's, maybe you should maybe took advantage of it right over there.

00;05;26;19 - 00;05;41;23 Unknown Oh, yeah. What? What the. Should I repeat? No no no no no no no no no no no no I was just telling you I was just telling what do you hear what happened? Did I miss something? No no no no no. Because, I was just telling her that she took advantage and she was like, oh, you don't think I'm that kind of person?

00;05;41;24 - 00;05;58;29 Unknown Like. But it happens unintentionally because, like, the guy wants to be with you. Like, I'm friends with you, so. So it's like, okay, go do this then. Do you want to be with you next task like you associate with me? Okay, do this to me then, you know? Damn. No. That's smart. Yeah. Because like, another friend of mine, he's like, really?

00;05;59;00 - 00;06;22;05 Unknown He's super nice. Yeah. And to be, like, even a story of how nice he was, he was helping an old lady, like, off the bus. And he left his bag just on the bench for, like, a couple seconds, and he turned around and the guy stole up, and I was just like, dude, that's. So he was helping an old lady off the bus like a gentleman, and his bag is stolen.

00;06;22;05 - 00;06;40;04 Unknown I was like, this world is too much else. Why did he take off his bag? It was a it's not a backpack. It's just like a oh carry bag. Okay, okay. So. And he wasn't that far from the bench like it just happened so quick. And he turned around. The guy was just running with it. He was just like, damn, bro, there's stuff like this happening.

00;06;40;04 - 00;07;04;16 Unknown Don't you feel like sometimes people are like half angels? Like half demons? Because, like, I feel like some people are just evil. Like they just are born like that, you know? And, like, even depends. They say, oh, when they were kids, they were, like, killing animals on. I don't know what. Yeah. That's the first sign of a serious even though, like, their parents are the most peaceful people on earth, you know, they're like, the kids still turn out weird, you know?

00;07;04;16 - 00;07;25;00 Unknown So I feel like. I feel like it's not binary with with that kind of moral dilemma. It's just. Whoa. No way. This just. Is this okay? I mean, this, you know, this is the. That's why we have free will just not exist. No, he's a fucking prophet, right? Prophet? Carl, we're always just kind of in the middle. Okay.

00;07;25;00 - 00;07;43;05 Unknown Yeah, I think I feel this balance. Yeah. The universe offers balance. Yeah, yeah, yeah, but some people are just born with that evilness. Like, okay, why would you like, why would you steal someone's bag? Like, yeah, yeah, yeah. Like I feel like as a, you know, like as in person, like there's someone who knows what they went through.

00;07;43;05 - 00;08;04;26 Unknown There's something dark, but, like, probably got stolen from. But okay, think about it. We also all of us went through some. Everyone went to some, some shit. Like we don't decide to be evil, you know, we just were more conscious of anything. And also I don't know. Yeah, if anything, you see people that have a comfortable life turning evil like some, some of them, like they wanted excitement.

00;08;05;00 - 00;08;25;22 Unknown Yeah, yeah, they got bored. Yeah, yeah. Y'all stabbed this wall or something. Oh, I don't know. Yeah, yeah. Like the conversation had. This was so dark quick. Yeah. So how long would you wait till you, call a girl and be like, hey, girl, what's up? What's the thing? How would you hit on somebody? How was your method of, like.

00;08;25;24 - 00;08;35;23 Unknown Like trying to show that. You show that you're, like, hitting on them? Yeah. I, I would, I would say like, I'd be more flirty, like, in

00;08;35;23 - 00;08;41;19 Unknown my words of choice. Okay. Nice ass.

00;08;41;22 - 00;08;47;22 Unknown What's all that movement?

00;08;48;12 - 00;09;10;21 Unknown Speed up my cock. Is there anything good? Yo, that thing's got a gravitational pull on it. Oh, this pickup line has ever worked. Has ever been picked up by a pickup line. I hate them, I like, oh, that was good. So. But, like, it's it's more. What's, what can you think of right now. Oh. Like very it's the very generic like like I could rearrange the alphabet.

00;09;10;21 - 00;09;27;28 Unknown I put you and I together. I hate them. Shake my I hate you hate pickup lines. Yeah. Because it's like, what do you think I am? Like, you think I'm just like a like a like I'm a pet. If you say sit, I'll sit like. And then when you take a pick up line, I'm going to come like, you know.

00;09;27;28 - 00;09;51;24 Unknown Yeah. Like, I mean to you, but like, you know, but like, you know, it's. But maybe some girls like it because it's creative. It's funny when it's funny. Hi. Nice legs. I don't know, I draw lines, I've never done pickup lines. There's. Yeah. Like, I don't know, I just love watching these pickup artists sometimes. Just see, like, seeing them or the videos.

00;09;51;24 - 00;10;15;02 Unknown Seeing them be creative and just, like, talking to like, women and just be like, do you take notes? Sometimes. And then sometimes I can't like, oh boy, I can't lie. Let's go girl. Yeah, it's coming for you ladies. Yeah. So nobody has ever picked you up with a pickup line. It's just more so conversational. I think on dating apps, like, a lot of guys would try to say they didn't like really dating apps, and I would.

00;10;15;02 - 00;10;32;00 Unknown Oh, yeah, I've gotten pickup lines and I'll be like, anyways. No, no, I don't I don't see that another route. But I just put dot dot dot. Honestly I just tell them straight up that I hate pickup lines. That's smart. Yeah okay. So be truthful to so I don't want to be fake and be like, oh, I'm so good.

00;10;32;00 - 00;10;54;28 Unknown I'm. Yeah. But on the street maybe. Yeah. On the street. Like but that's catcalling. It's not even pickup line. Yeah, yeah I like I like those I like those polite cat calling videos where he's like, yeah, you look like you pay your rent on time. And they're like, I do. I'm just trying to be nice. We just try to be that guy with the megaphone.

00;10;54;28 - 00;11;12;04 Unknown He's fun. Have you watch the video? I yeah, yeah, yeah, it's very wholesome. Look like you get your name. I went on a, like, dates with, like, a guy like this. Like a pickup artist. Oh, really? Yeah. Oh, yeah. Yeah yeah yeah, yeah. And then he had videos about the. Okay, pick up picking up girls and stuff, and.

00;11;12;04 - 00;11;28;29 Unknown But I didn't know he did these videos until after the first date. And I was like, Holy wow. Yeah. Did it work on you I guess no. In real life he's not like that. And he hates he hates these things too. So so weird. This. Yeah. Anyway.

00;11;29;02 - 00;11;54;01 Unknown I don't know if I, what's a way you would pick up a girl other than being flirty? You're like. Because I knew one. What, like one way of, like, wanting to, like, date someone was always to be, like, kind of available or not available, but be be there. Like, if she's like and or doing anything with, like, just be there.

00;11;54;03 - 00;12;14;01 Unknown Yeah. Like that's how people have different love languages. Yeah. Yeah. Like be around be not like, oh do stuff for her and all the stuff. But like be there. Yeah like or even I'll like call like after the first day as I call it was up and we just have a chat instead of like just texting. Yeah.

00;12;14;03 - 00;12;34;25 Unknown I think there's ways to like be present with them in a sense. Like I don't know, maybe like just. I don't know I actually have no clue. Yeah. Why don't you maybe I like put up. Maybe I don't put myself out there enough. I think when you like someone you can feel it. You just like you want to be with them more.

00;12;34;29 - 00;12;51;07 Unknown Yeah. I start to like, do. I'll do that. I just want to hang out more. Yeah. Like even when we would like. What cool thing when I go with my partner now is when we started to, like, meet each other. I'd be working and she'd be like, okay, I'll come see you. Like, she would go out of her way to just come see me, to just eat some food.

00;12;51;07 - 00;13;06;02 Unknown And then she'd go home. True. She's like, oh I'll travel all this way just to, just to have some food with you. And like I was like that, I was like oh it gives you a sparkly feeling. It's like a warm feeling. Yeah. True. God I love my. Oh, so your love language is quality time. Yeah, yeah.

00;13;06;04 - 00;13;39;07 Unknown Oh, okay. Okay. Yeah. Cause speaking on relationships, a type of relationship, especially now we're going through, like, this long distance thing. Yeah. Oh, yeah. Yeah. Which can be hard, but like, the, the taking advantage of the time, like making sure you guys have time together, like for us is just watching the show at night on discord. And like us just watch our shows together and like when we lose that time when we like, don't have a day where we can't watch it feel so like shitty the next day or shitty going to bed that night, like, yeah, it's making, making sure the time is there and it's something to be excited for.

00;13;39;10 - 00;14;08;27 Unknown Yeah. And that's a daily thing for me. That's. Yeah. Your love language is quality time for 100%. Yeah. If they're around I'm like just feels warm I love you. What are the length love languages again. Like there's quality time. There's accessories words of assurance words. There's a surance. Oh where's the factory relations? Official reassurance. Yeah, I think it's words of affection because it's like, oh, I love, you know, you break you out of the affirmation words.

00;14;09;00 - 00;14;29;20 Unknown Yeah, yeah, yeah. You're right. Yeah. Words of affirmation. Yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah. Last I was gaslighting physical physical. And then there was another. That's another one. Isn't there a gift one. Acts of service or services. Yeah, yeah yeah. That's in some in different like households. It also goes back to your growing up. Like in my house.

00;14;29;22 - 00;14;46;03 Unknown Like I don't know how it is with you guys. I get like sometimes I'm way better than I was before but I, we used to like never ask people for stuff. Like oh can you give me call. Can you give me a glass of water. Like I would never ask you to do that because it's like in my houses you just grow up like no you have two legs.

00;14;46;03 - 00;15;00;27 Unknown Go get it yourself. But that's like a love language. That's like how like yeah I will get you a glass of water. Yeah. Yeah yeah that's true. Yeah it's true. I'm way better at it now. I don't think that way anymore. Thank you. Like I used to be like no I have two legs. I'll do it myself I don't need anybody.

00;15;00;29 - 00;15;26;15 Unknown Yeah. Oh yeah. What's up. It's. Yeah yeah yeah yeah. This coffee, it depends on the personality or like how you grew up combined together. Yeah I feel what. What's yours girl I think mine is more like quality time in my own ways. I feel like it's. You see, on the basis of service guy acts of service. Yeah. Very true.

00;15;26;17 - 00;15;52;24 Unknown But also like this how you give it. But like, how do you want to receive it? How do I get that physical baby? Yeah. That's my hands. You see my ankles, rub them. I don't, I think I like it. I get a like it would be kind of mirrored. So if because I feel like I do also like giving acts of service.

00;15;52;26 - 00;16;14;26 Unknown I also give an act of hell. Yeah. That sounds. Oh ladies hit my boy. And then I touch you. I feel like I would also love to have acts of service given to me. Yeah I feel like also quality time is good. Yeah. Yeah yeah. And like I'm a physical guy I think to like touch.

00;16;14;26 - 00;16;36;19 Unknown Yeah. You're like a touch. Yeah. A lady says I gotta keep saying that. Yeah. How about you. What's your acts of existence. I feel like receiving I like acts of service the most. Giving ever. Like, quality time to quality, Yeah, yeah, yeah, all the time is very fun. Physical touch. I feel like I'm not, like a a very busy person.

00;16;36;19 - 00;16;56;00 Unknown No. Cuddly person. The same. We grew up in a household where, like, we don't really hug. We don't really. I mean, don't worry, like, who was flying, but, like, it's just like you just did it most, like, maybe like Arab community is like, I didn't even see my friends, like, do it. It's. Yeah. Yeah. It's not very common in my country at least.

00;16;56;03 - 00;17;14;16 Unknown Yeah I see yeah, yeah, yeah. I always do like side hugs like, oh cheers. Yeah yeah yeah I don't think I have the platonic side hugs. Yeah I love I even get irritated like if I had a friend that whenever she's talking she would like touch me on my knee, let's say like she's like she's starting to make a point.

00;17;14;16 - 00;17;28;29 Unknown She's like touching me on my knee or like on my hand. I get so irritated. Like, really? I hate because people are like that too. Like, I hear this all the dude, like, I hate it. So it's like, I think even think someone did that to me. Like, oh, they're just doing this on my hand. I get the egg.

00;17;29;00 - 00;17;51;24 Unknown Like, I'm like, don't even put a hand on me. Like I hate it. Yeah, yeah. I think they've watched like too many psychological videos. Like psychological, violent videos. What? You should look at the forehead when you tell me what you should do to be more charismatic and okay to touch people, touch people. I mean, I, I have I watched a lot of those videos.

00;17;51;24 - 00;18;08;29 Unknown Me too, me too. And I feel like because we were in sales, we learned some techniques. Right? Like you can't stand while you're putting in your hands. No, you match your body, you open your hands up, you move, you open up, you say yes, you move your legs like your feet towards that person. So they know you're you're interested in talking to them.

00;18;08;29 - 00;18;28;25 Unknown You know you don't like, you make eye contact. So all these things are like, but don't touch people. So preference I guess. Yeah. But yeah, that's how I got my sales joke. I mean, we, I remember like we were told to, like, shake hands at the beginning before, like, this is how we used to do it. Like I used to shaking it.

00;18;28;27 - 00;18;43;21 Unknown Yeah. Yeah. Like when they come. Yeah. So it's like that's like Covid. I also hated that because, I mean, I don't know where these hands when I go to church or, you know, what I love is when someone's like, you're about to shake someone's hand and they're honest, like, oh, it's I got like, what hands or now or sweaty.

00;18;43;23 - 00;19;06;19 Unknown Yeah, yeah. Thank you. Yeah. That was, that was the right thing to do. Yeah yeah yeah. Looking out. Wow. Yeah. Hey ladies I don't know I gotta keep say that, but you know. Yeah. Yeah. Relationships, man. You got to. I'm excited to see what Carl looks like in a relationship. Like, Me too. I'm excited. I like watching my friends move through life.

00;19;06;22 - 00;19;23;17 Unknown Yeah. You know, like getting relationships, doing these things. It's so fun. Yeah. Even last time we talked about wedding. Oh, you should. It's. It's all beautiful, I think. Yeah, it's all very lovely. Find her. Let's get the beach

00;19;23;17 - 00;19;44;20 Unknown yeah, I love you. I love all of you. So, Carl, when are you going to find this girl you don't actively pursue? Which is when I mean, yeah, because I like showing. Sounds aggressive, but it's not. I, I don't know, it's just there's already, like, enough going on right now for me. Yeah. But but oh that's never going to stop.

00;19;44;22 - 00;20;04;11 Unknown Yeah. But that's never going to stop. In five years from now there's always going to be a lot going on. Do you know what I mean? I like it, time is not forgiving. That was deep as hell. Wow. Time is not forgiving. Like you're always going to have stuff going on like, oh, it just feels overwhelming to try to get a girl or like if you if you don't want one, it's up to you.

00;20;04;13 - 00;20;20;28 Unknown I'm just saying. But like, I'm, it's true. I'm going to keep going, man. It's true. You're going to be 46 and you're like, shit, maybe I'll just be one of those like elderly people who have a lot of cats. Yeah. Oh, no. Actually, like a cat. I don't mind that. I come over a lot more. I like cats, cats are good.

00;20;21;00 - 00;20;46;09 Unknown Yeah. There's a cat at our house that's obsessed with me. Well, really? Yeah. You won't leave me alone? He keeps coming to my door in the middle of the night and scratching and meowing and, And he just hangs out. Won't leave me. That's cute. Yeah, yeah, but I feel like I'm cool. Yeah, I feel like it's fine if you're not actively looking, because, like, also, sometimes, I mean, relationships are fun, but also they're not easy.

00;20;46;13 - 00;21;03;28 Unknown Yeah. Like it's people think like it's all just butterflies and. Yeah, but that's life. That's. Yeah. Yeah. Exactly. Exactly. But I think you still got to do like maybe the more you do it the more also you learn about yourself. Yeah. You might like. That's why maybe you should actively more look more because that makes you learn more about you.

00;21;04;01 - 00;21;20;06 Unknown And you know, maybe I have a problem with this thing. I need to fix that, you know? So. And what if you try it and you. Maybe you're not even into it? Yeah. So you maybe prefer to be single, like, yeah, you would actually have your answers. Yeah. Instead of just living in this unknown, going through, just doing whatever.

00;21;20;13 - 00;21;34;28 Unknown Yeah, yeah. Because like, I feel like we are pushing it on him maybe because, like, yeah, we're in relationships or like, I remember, I remember you pushed it on me. Yeah, yeah. You were like, how long are you going to be single for? I'm like, dude, I know. No way I've ever said you you, I've never said it.

00;21;34;28 - 00;21;54;05 Unknown Like, I guess it's something similar. Maybe so aggressive, something similar, something similar. I've never said it like, I'm sure I've been like, oh. So, boyfriend, when are you going to get one? Yeah, probably like that. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't know, it feels like because I remember when we went camping or like, I was third wheeling and fifth wheeling all the time, you know, and you're like, oh, when you're going to get one, you know, I was like, I don't know.

00;21;54;05 - 00;22;15;17 Unknown I just drove. Like the way I feel with my partner feels so good that like, I want everybody for some reason it makes sense. Like everybody, you should have feel it. Yeah. You should feel this too. So I predict that it might come off as like a giddy up, but like, yeah, I think it's just I know love is fun.

00;22;15;17 - 00;22;34;10 Unknown It's hard. Love is hard. To trust is good and bad. Like, it's just such a it's a new life experience. Yeah. You're just going through life and you're experiencing what I feel like I'm. I thinking of like I think I'm thinking of it like in a logical sense where, like, I'm not in the point of in my life where I can, you know, handle a relationship, like financially.

00;22;34;12 - 00;22;49;10 Unknown Yeah. That's what I feel like. I feel like I want to, secure a job or even just, like, secure, like a source of income first shit like that. And then, yeah, I don't know, I'd be in the place of my life where I'm confident enough to say, hey, you know what? I could love somebody else other than myself.

00;22;49;13 - 00;23;13;04 Unknown Do you think to me that's holding you back? That's a little bit, yeah. Do you think that's holding you back, though? Just a bit. Yeah, just it's like I would say. Yeah, it is an important thing to. Yeah to think about. And those are like the top two reasons I think for me. But it's also like every like life, I don't know because honestly when it's going to happen, it's going to happen like, you know like like you are.

00;23;13;06 - 00;23;34;15 Unknown Yeah. There's no rush. You are meeting people outside. Yeah. No rush, but I'm just wondering about. Yeah. So you don't do anything because also sometimes if you're not satisfied with yourself that can project on your partner too. Like exactly. Yeah. Yeah. Which is why sometimes self-esteem acts. Yeah. To do self-esteem blocks things that you enjoy. Yeah. And also, you know, but also relationships can raise your self-esteem too.

00;23;34;16 - 00;23;55;02 Unknown Yeah. Like I don't think it should be the sole purpose. True. To raise your self-esteem. True, true. But it is nice to have a feeling like, oh, damn, I can be loved. True. Accepting love is just as hard as giving true. I say locker room. I love coach, relationship coach. Hey, guys. Schedule me from Thursday to Friday.

00;23;55;05 - 00;24;19;07 Unknown Pay me in bitcoin. I will be your talker. I don't know. Yeah, man. I just think, like, it's of course like it's such a factor in and always think about. But it's also like it's it's fun to have a crush. Yeah. Like, oh, that girl's cute. Like, I don't know what she's up to, like, college, but hey, you want to hang out?

00;24;19;08 - 00;24;41;24 Unknown You want to do anything you want to, like, go on a walk. Yeah. That's free. Like, hey, like, and doing activities together. Okay. Let's go. True. Yeah. Let's go look at water. I don't know, flutter other. These are fun. Oh, you got dates. My dates that I go on dates. They're fun. Water. I'm just giving random examples. Yeah, I think I think, yeah, because I learned something about yourself.

00;24;41;24 - 00;25;03;26 Unknown Yeah, I've gone on dates, for sure, but then, I don't know. It's just that I feel. I feel dates on those dates. Do you feel like, oh, I feel I feel reciprocating like I'm, I'm, I'm like, I like, I like that this idea of dating of course. But I don't know I just, I don't know, I like I it's, it's very nitpicky for sure.

00;25;03;26 - 00;25;21;20 Unknown I want to vet the person but that's how you do it through dating right. Yeah. You do it through. But talking to someone and meeting them I know also that is exhausting. But the reward on the other side is potentially also having maybe that's some different thing. You should think about it differently. Yeah. It shouldn't be exhausting. Yeah it's work.

00;25;21;23 - 00;25;44;25 Unknown But like if you're like 06I have to, I have to go on this date. You probably shouldn't date that person. Yeah exactly. Exactly. Maybe I've just had like bad dates maybe. Yeah. Maybe they've had a lot of bad dates. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. What's the worst. Do you have a than on that? The worst one. I feel like, the guy took me to, like, a Mexican restaurant.

00;25;44;28 - 00;26;01;00 Unknown That music was so loud, I couldn't even, like, talk to him, you know. Yeah. And I was like, I think the music's too loud. You want to move like, somewhere or like, just move somewhere in the rest of this restaurant where it's like less loud and he's like, no, here's fine. And I was like, oh, but I can talk to you.

00;26;01;00 - 00;26;16;13 Unknown And he's like, oh, it's okay. We don't need to talk that much. I'm like, wow, so why am I here? Guy? He's like, I think he's planning on just like having like sleeping with me or something, you know? Yeah. And I felt so weird, like, I started, like cutting it short shorts short, like, you know. And on top of that, he didn't pay for my food.

00;26;16;20 - 00;26;34;19 Unknown Like the first day. Yeah, yeah, first day. He didn't pay for my food. I was like, no, I checked out completely and I was dressed up like I was really ready, you know? And so he invited you up to date? Yeah. Yeah. And he didn't fucking pay. Yeah, motherfucker. Yeah, yeah. First date and he picked the place and everything.

00;26;34;19 - 00;26;49;27 Unknown Like, I was like, expecting that. It's going to be nice. And then after that, when we went out, I was, I was like, oh, I'm going to go see my friends at the beach. Like, sorry, I can't come with you. And he's like, oh, yeah. And I was like, oh, like, but I'm wonder, I don't know this area because it was his area.

00;26;50;00 - 00;27;07;22 Unknown Yeah, where can I take this bus? And he couldn't even navigate like he told me to do it. He's like, oh, you find it? And I was like, dude, you are, man. You supposed to at least show me where the way is. You know, maybe he got bothered. I am not going to go with him, I don't know.

00;27;07;24 - 00;27;32;21 Unknown And then I just left and it was so horrible that it's pretty shitty. Yeah, yeah. Don't do that. Yeah, yeah. There you go. I think you're pretty. Stand red flags all the way. Pretty. Okay. Close. Yeah. But, again, time into segment, actually. Really? Yeah. Okay. That's crazy. It when it flies by sometimes. Yeah. These episodes. Yeah. We're very serious relationship today.

00;27;32;23 - 00;27;58;15 Unknown Yeah. Of course it's a mental part. It's one of the foundations of, like, humans crave connection. Yeah. Like he has, like, it's in our genetics to crave connection. And obviously there's no rush. I think when you get a girlfriend or or whatever, like it'll be special. It'll happen when it happens. It does take time. Sometimes. Yeah. I just like.

00;27;58;17 - 00;28;20;13 Unknown Yeah, it's exciting. It just takes effort. It's just like, just be like, oh, like actually letting yourself like someone. Yeah. Like, oh damn. This goes really cool. What you doing today? It could just be a text, you know? Or like, hey, probably don't say it thinking of you, but hey, I'm inside like a house, but, like, yeah, just be like, I'm allowed to like this person.

00;28;20;19 - 00;28;38;01 Unknown Yeah. Or, like, have a crush. Having a crush is fun. Maybe because it's my, I don't know, like, coping mechanism. I think our defense mechanism. Oh, I don't like it. I mean, yeah, because, like, I don't know, we just. Are you quick to think that they might reject you first? I think so, yeah. Yeah. You're like also. Yeah.

00;28;38;01 - 00;28;58;29 Unknown And also like the idea of just rejection and everything just kind of like outward just it hurts. I'm similar chilling my shielding myself same same shielding myself from just like ever. And that's why I like you need the girl that is more active. Yeah. Than you. More like, louder than you. I think so, probably, yeah. Matching the energy or even above.

00;28;59;00 - 00;29;22;20 Unknown Yeah yeah yeah yeah, yeah. Rambunctious. Yeah. But dude, that's how you grow by letting in. Like going through with those fears too. And you would find out who you are as a person when you get rejection. Yeah. And we were in sales. We handle rejection on a daily basis 100 times. Yeah. And we gotten better at selling. And you get better and you grow as a human.

00;29;22;22 - 00;29;52;18 Unknown It's true. You'll get these bitches, bro. You know. Let's go. But yeah let's segment. Yeah I get this is let's get some girls. Okay. Would you rather be in a safer car with a bad driver or not? Us or not a safe car, but with a good driver. Good driver? Not driver. Not a safe car. Yeah. I don't know what it is like because if you have your class one license and I'm just a passenger of yours, cool.

00;29;52;18 - 00;30;14;00 Unknown I don't need to worry about nothing. Yeah. Hopefully I don't need to worry about other drivers on the road. But like I don't know there's some people you just trust. Yeah, yeah, but if it's a safe car and, like, you're hitting every curb. Yeah. Kind of like, what if it's stuff that's like on self drive Tesla say no Tesla.

00;30;14;01 - 00;30;34;16 Unknown Yeah yeah. Do you trust those self-driving ones. Now the I would freak out I'm scared now because that's the thing. If you want to have a self-driving car, don't have a steering wheel in there. True. Because then and seeing that no one is there freaks me out. You know, I hate, like, sometimes I hate being a passenger, like, I don't sometimes I hate being a passenger because I just I don't have control.

00;30;34;18 - 00;30;53;17 Unknown Like, there's nothing I can do. So no, I like I like being a passenger. But now the Skytrain, like Skytrain. I feel like I don't like it. I always have these intrusive thoughts that, like, train will crash. Yeah. Oh, like, the train will fly away from the, from the like the rails. So sometimes they make sounds and I'm like, is this the end?

00;30;53;17 - 00;31;05;26 Unknown Like, is this how am I going to end? Like suddenly thought about it and I'll look around for escape routes. Yeah, yeah, I look I would look for I'll go by the door like an off. I'm like, I'll just. If I fly away, I'm going to hang to this tree and just go slowly down like, I don't know.

00;31;06;03 - 00;31;27;09 Unknown I'll jump on the tree to make sure you guys have survival instincts. I'm just like, okay, so another normal day. That's. It's another normal day. It's happening. It's happening. I was going into the water. Car was a straight face, but I didn't think of a goldfish. So I like I, I try to find my way out or even in buildings.

00;31;27;15 - 00;31;49;22 Unknown You're such a good human. You know what you mean? Yeah, a good human. I just want to live. Maybe because we always expecting the worst. Yeah, yeah, yeah, maybe because, like, with, I probably like I was died in the past. Like, I've definitely come close to death in a lot of situations. So like. Yeah. Speaking of close to death experience, that happened to me this weekend, like, literally happened.

00;31;49;24 - 00;32;08;08 Unknown We reached my friend's place after a night out and then, like, the Uber dropped us off, right? And then it was like, like I got off from the Uber and I was just texting on my phone, so I didn't pay attention. And I was like, behind the Uber. Like walking behind. Not in front. Yeah. And he was backing out like biking back in the car.

00;32;08;10 - 00;32;31;13 Unknown And he almost hit me like it was so close. And everyone watched me just walking slowly with my phone and I wasn't even paying attention. He almost hit me and it was just kept moving. He didn't even see me. And also surprised, like, can't you see me in the mirror? Like I ain't your driver? Like I, I don't know, like even moving that fast when people are still getting off the car is weird, you know, like wait for us to, like, be away from the car then.

00;32;31;16 - 00;32;55;12 Unknown Yeah. Yeah. I was so scared. I'm like, my guardian angel is working overtime. Like. Like. That's awesome. Like. Yeah. This is good. This is a great. This is a good. All right. Well, glad that you're. We're glad. We're glad that you're here. You're good. Oh. You're safe. Everybody stay safe out there. Stay safe, stay safe. Baby, this is like, God is giving you other.

00;32;55;16 - 00;33;14;29 Unknown Another one to move the mic to your other hand. Why? This is the same thing you said last year. Yeah, right. But, I mean, I tried to do. Yeah, whatever. Would you rather take a cold shower every day or take a hot shower, but only twice a week? Cold or cold shower? I like cold showers. Now.

00;33;15;01 - 00;33;33;08 Unknown Oh. You really? Yeah. Dude, David Goggins is coming, and it's been. I do a mix of both, like a warm shower and then same. I do hot shower and then in the end I make it cold. Yes, I do that. I think because it's summer too. That's why like I started doing it in the past couple of weeks actually.

00;33;33;08 - 00;33;51;21 Unknown Yeah. Summer. Summertime has been getting so hot and having a cold shower is such a fresh air. So it feels like a breath of fresh air. Yeah. And, yeah, you just like you have that, like, like numbness and just like like that. You're very present. Yeah. You're you feel like you're not thinking about a lot of other stuff.

00;33;51;21 - 00;34;11;24 Unknown Yeah, yeah. You feel euphoric. That noise. Yeah. There's like that almost slight adrenaline feeling like. Oh yeah. But I would also take a cold shower every day because I feel like if I only shower twice a week, I'll feel gross. Yeah, yeah I like and then that affects your like self-esteem. Yeah. And then that affects other aspects. I can't focus because I don't shower.

00;34;11;26 - 00;34;29;26 Unknown Give me bad major cold showers. I mean, they say they're good for you because, like, what's the thing? Like, you start if you start the day doing something hard. It. Yeah. The rest of the day. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. And like, be like. Okay, cool. I did the hardest part. Get into a cold shower right when you wake up.

00;34;30;02 - 00;34;54;00 Unknown I really want to be one of these people that go to the gym in the morning. Yeah, I really want to be that so bad. Do it. I know it's hard. It is harder said than done. I can't even wake up early like it's hard. True, true. David Goggins okay, last one, would you rather have a photo identical memory or be able to selectively forget things first?

00;34;54;00 - 00;35;01;08 Unknown One I think I already have. The second one I got lucky.

00;35;01;10 - 00;35;20;05 Unknown But selectively forget things select yeah, I think I think I would use it. You already have the I think I already have that. He's got a bad memory. Yeah. I have one of the worst memories I, I want the maybe that's why you're so jolly and so happy. Yeah I love it guy I don't know, man. He's like he's like crying from the inside.

00;35;20;05 - 00;35;39;19 Unknown Like. Yeah. They think I'm happy. They think I'm happy. But I'm not that. Where are you? No one is truly happy. But I feel like sometimes, some people are, like more focused on the moment and some people are just, overthinking. Yeah. Yeah. I feel like I'm a poor present guy. Like you're very present. Yeah, but when you.

00;35;39;25 - 00;36;01;21 Unknown You're a poor present guy. What do you mean? Like a like he's present. Like a present. Oh, yeah, I think so. I think because when you, when I ask, you do stuff like thumbnails and stuff, you really sit and just do the thing. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Like very, very actively. Yeah, yeah. And, I with the selective memory thing, it is sort of a blessing and a curse because I think I would abuse it.

00;36;01;23 - 00;36;26;22 Unknown And then I think the memory for. No the selective forgetting one. Oh, I think I would abuse it and I think it might change who I am. I would wow, I would love it. I would like to forget a lot of things in my life. Yeah, me too. But like I say that like I would be one, 222222, but it was it like, I think it would change me if I didn't have those experiences.

00;36;26;25 - 00;36;48;16 Unknown Yeah, that's very true. Like, I, I can't I'm not saying I'm, I love, like I hate like life is crazy. I think you need those experiences. The photographic thing is cool. So that's the crazy part. Each photo, identical memory. What does it mean? Like it's like you just remember everything. Yeah. You remember everything? Like an image? Yeah.

00;36;48;19 - 00;37;05;00 Unknown Like you can read a whole book, I think. So I kind of have that. No, no, you could read a whole book and remember every single word of that book. Oh, it's like that. It's like photo. It's like photos are stored in your book. Yeah, but this is how I practice for, like, exams sometimes. Like. No, it's like.

00;37;05;00 - 00;37;24;08 Unknown I mean, you memorize every single word. 300 words. Oh, so you remember everything? Every word for word. You remember every single. You remember everything you did on. Oh, no. I'm terrible. So bad at this April 22nd on a Tuesday, whatever day. And it doesn't six. You remember? It was painful. I would never want to have that. I want that I would always be right.

00;37;24;11 - 00;37;44;00 Unknown I want no, there's like the camera. You said this. I feel like you had this one actually did not. You have the receipts and you have the receipts. Yeah, I would want that. That's a superpower. Oh, no. I know what you did on May 7th. Yeah. I'm so scared of, like, people who have really good memories and just.

00;37;44;01 - 00;38;04;15 Unknown We spend time together. I have a pretty good memory. I have a very good memories and arguments or arguments. I have very good a memory, I think. Yeah, yeah. Sometimes it's. Yeah, like I said, it's a blessing and a curse because curse wise it's like I feel dumb, you know, like it's did that really happen? And then like stuff and you just.

00;38;04;15 - 00;38;23;01 Unknown Yeah, you're like, you felt like you're getting gaslit, you know, like I just said that I do, I sometimes I get angry with you. Yeah. When you forget the things that you forgot that my eyes were burned. What are you talking about? Who cares about your eyes? Not no one gives a fuck. But like, when we. Oh, like.

00;38;23;01 - 00;38;47;03 Unknown Oh, yesterday we went to this and you're like, no, we didn't. And I'm like, what the fuck? I hate you. Like, no, we did. And then you make I'm stupid like I fucking remember. Yeah, yeah yeah yeah. That's why I appreciate that. No, no. Just to keep me in check with my memory. Yeah. Photographic. Yeah. But I guess it's also good because, like, I worry less, I guess, I don't know.

00;38;47;03 - 00;39;11;12 Unknown Yeah, definitely. Yeah. Yeah. You know. Yeah. It must be nice. Yeah, it must be nice. Yeah. Because, like, I really wish I can take a billion. This. Yeah. I have this thing where, like, forever. Yeah. I'm just had some memory last. I really desperately want some memory loss. Yeah. What is it called? Like when you forget something and dumb.

00;39;11;14 - 00;39;33;23 Unknown No, no, I'll just show you. What's it called? Concussion. Oh, no. Oh, yeah. Yeah. When you have a concussion, you. That's a very I don't. Yeah. It's when you rattle the brain. Yeah, yeah. The brain says I remember a fleeting memory one time. Like I went to, like, I don't know, I think university psychologist or something. And I was just explaining to them like what my struggle and studying was.

00;39;33;29 - 00;39;50;07 Unknown And he's like, have you ever had a concussion? And I was like, he said that. Yeah, sorry. I just I was crazy and I was like, what do you mean? Like, I mean, I don't know if they've ever had a I hit my head a couple of times. I don't know if it's considered a concussion like God do when you hit your head hard.

00;39;50;08 - 00;40;10;18 Unknown I feel like old old like doctors are just, like, hilarious because they don't give a fuck anymore. They're just like, yeah, are you need yeah even. Yeah. He said at some point he's like, life is hard. Like, yeah, life is hard. Doctors get real. Yeah, cause they're old and they're like, you know what? You need to wake up like, yeah, yeah.

00;40;10;20 - 00;40;29;18 Unknown Doctors I yeah, fuck it. I, I learn doctors get real I know you need to wake up call like, you know, just hey, you're going to die if you do this, if you're going to keep doing this like no one cares. So is you guys memory, like, really? So, like, you see, you see it kind of like vividly in your head.

00;40;29;21 - 00;40;49;23 Unknown I see my memory sending it back. Really think of like a video footage. Really your story frame. I can play it out the same. Yeah. Which I hate sometimes. Shit. Yeah. Mine is just like it's always. Worse. We're happy, man. Is always like a fleeting memory, you know? Like, it's just like there's bits and pieces that I know happen.

00;40;49;23 - 00;41;10;25 Unknown But then it's not. It's not all cohesive. But I know the order of place of what happened. Do you have a picture of it. Yeah. Like a hazy picture. Yeah. Same the same a bit. You don't see it moving. This is mine is like footage. Maybe it's maybe how. It's like I was going to say pictures just like stacked on each other.

00;41;11;00 - 00;41;31;26 Unknown So it plays out like a film. Yeah, I don't know, I can see, I remember now everything. I can remember how stuff felt. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. The environment. Yeah yeah yeah same same. Yeah yeah. And like stuff as a kid to walking around. Walking around. Yeah yeah yeah yeah. Or even sometimes when you walk in the morning and you start like having flashbacks of like your I don't know.

00;41;32;01 - 00;41;48;10 Unknown Yeah. Mornings you're like oh yeah. Those are great. Yeah. Yeah. There's even one day when I was a kid I was like seven I think. And I was kicking. I had a soccer ball that had no like rubber on it. It's just like the insides of it. Yeah. And I would kick it against it. So we have a white.

00;41;48;12 - 00;42;08;09 Unknown That's so. Okay I was yeah I love money growing up. So it's gonna get more sad actually I'm about it. Let's I continue with the story. It's about to get more. Oh it's so yeah. So I sat have the soccer ball and it was raining outside, and I wanted to play outside, but everybody just didn't want to go out.

00;42;08;11 - 00;42;30;08 Unknown So I went, like, down the street. And I just kicked the ball against the wall for about two hours, in the rain, by myself, chilling. I feel like that's very vivid. That's why I used to play with my brother, because he was like the first boy to me and my sister after me and my sister, because I would feel bad, like he would want to do boy things, but, like, there's no one to play with him.

00;42;30;08 - 00;42;53;10 Unknown And I'm like, yeah, like, I have my sister, but you have no one, you know, like, let's play ball, let's play class. I don't know, let's like, I was like, I love it, let's play cards, play hard, let's play door. Yeah, that is hard. I remember those those times, although it was hard, but I remember just I did it for two hours and it was like I was having the time of my life.

00;42;53;15 - 00;43;15;01 Unknown Not really. I was pretty sad. It was just raining, my feet were soaking wet, and I had these old shoes. Like, I just remember all of it. It was raining. And you were playing. Yeah, yeah. And I was soaking, like, wet. So it was just playing just in the dirt, like kicking this ball against his wall for hours, seeing if I could change it, do this thing.

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