Attention seeking or real need with a narcissistic mother's demands? How to tell the difference & protect yourself
Season 2, Episode 61, May 28, 05:10 AM
Does your mother ever ring you at crazy times to ask for things you know she could easily get done without you?
Does she require you to do errands with her you know she could easily do by herself?
Does she ever require you to sort and fix things for her, when you have no idea how to, and calling a professional was the only thing to do from the start?
Is this constant stream of demands leaving you feeling:
🔸 frustrated because her demands are getting more absurd,Â
🔸 confused about her behaviour,Â
🔸 bad about feeling she is an inconvenience to you,Â
🔸 exhausted because you are running everywhere to satisfy her needs and demands, 🔸 guilty when you can’t,Â
🔸 exasperated by her not respecting your boundaries… ???
Of course, it is not universal that a mother who needs help with things is being a problem. It’s ok to need help and ask for support.Â
But with a narcissistic mother, this can be weaponize and transform into a whole different thing.Â
It can in fact be a manipulation tactic.
In this episode we explore how to tell the difference between a genuine need for support and a manipulation tactic by a narcissistic mother. And I also share 5 tips to protect yourself from it!
Access the FREE Self Love Guided Practice here⬇
https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/
Apply for Reclaim Your Fullness Women Circles here⬇
https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/women-circles/
Apply for the 1:1 10 Weeks Inner Transformation Healing Mother Wounds Programme here⬇
https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/10-weeks-programme/
Ask questions and share your experience with Matilde by emailing at matilde@womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me
With Love!
#daughtersofnarcissisticmothers #maternalnarcissism #healingmotherwounds #childhoodtrauma #womencircles #narcissisticmanipulation #innertransformation
Does she require you to do errands with her you know she could easily do by herself?
Does she ever require you to sort and fix things for her, when you have no idea how to, and calling a professional was the only thing to do from the start?
Is this constant stream of demands leaving you feeling:
🔸 frustrated because her demands are getting more absurd,Â
🔸 confused about her behaviour,Â
🔸 bad about feeling she is an inconvenience to you,Â
🔸 exhausted because you are running everywhere to satisfy her needs and demands, 🔸 guilty when you can’t,Â
🔸 exasperated by her not respecting your boundaries… ???
Of course, it is not universal that a mother who needs help with things is being a problem. It’s ok to need help and ask for support.Â
But with a narcissistic mother, this can be weaponize and transform into a whole different thing.Â
It can in fact be a manipulation tactic.
In this episode we explore how to tell the difference between a genuine need for support and a manipulation tactic by a narcissistic mother. And I also share 5 tips to protect yourself from it!
Access the FREE Self Love Guided Practice here⬇
https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/
Apply for Reclaim Your Fullness Women Circles here⬇
https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/women-circles/
Apply for the 1:1 10 Weeks Inner Transformation Healing Mother Wounds Programme here⬇
https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/10-weeks-programme/
Ask questions and share your experience with Matilde by emailing at matilde@womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me
With Love!
#daughtersofnarcissisticmothers #maternalnarcissism #healingmotherwounds #childhoodtrauma #womencircles #narcissisticmanipulation #innertransformation