00:00.00 tduval18 And welcome back to side notes I'm Javonda and well already said side note damn we're gonna get better at that. We're gonna we're gonna have a good intro one of these days like a a punch.

00:04.21 Ashley I'm Ashley.

00:13.87 Ashley Like the.

00:18.70 tduval18 So how are you I I feel like I say this but I just also saw you on Sunday and we got pizza and it was really yummy and that garlic bread I really like that garlic bread I would like to say like that was a that was a good garlic bread.

00:29.64 Ashley It was. It was interesting. The garlic bread It was just like little slices of of bread with literal like butter cheese and garlic.

00:41.71 tduval18 I I like it I don't know why I feel like that was like a nice little like I enjoyed that.

00:46.21 Ashley I I mean I I didn't hate it I thought it was good I because you could really taste the garlic I Just thought it was interesting like how it was like I wasn't expecting like literal garlic bread.

00:56.47 tduval18 See the 1 place near us also does theirs like that and I really liked it especially when I was pregnant. It was like perfect like oh loved it.

01:04.60 Ashley How Dan it it was hela garlicky and I do like that.

01:14.85 tduval18 Yeah I Love a good garlic and I like the pizza I like that it was thin like I now don't get me wrong I do like a nice thick crust but lately as I've gotten older I like a thinner crossed pizza and I enjoyed that it was really.

01:20.87 Ashley Oohoo.

01:34.17 tduval18 Like thin and it had the same little like pepperonis that come up and almost make a grease cup but there wasn't really a lot of grease which I like because you know we're older. There was so much pepperoni when I opened it I was actually very surprised at how much pepperoni was there just because.

01:43.38 Ashley That's what I liked I like there was Holla Pepperoni There was helipep.

01:53.88 tduval18 I'm not used to that I feel like he to places Jip you these days.

01:57.22 Ashley Yeah, that's that was what I liked when you opened it I was like damns hell pepperoni but I wasn't mad. Definitely.

02:06.00 tduval18 Yeah, it was. It was good so I was going to tell you this and anyway but I told you a little bit so as many of you know the Jonas Brothers came back in 2019. It's now 2024 they just released. Ah, second new album. Um, and I on a world tour which like that's a big thing so they have a european tour that's taking place I think it starts in September. It's it's soon it might be june actually I I don't know what month it starts but it starts and the other day like last week or the week before they just uploaded this video onto their Tiktok and to their Instagram saying oh we're pushing back the dates of the european tour because we have some exciting stuff for you. We'll see there.

02:58.75 Ashley A.

03:00.79 tduval18 And like that was it like no sorry nothing So now a bunch of fans are unable to make the rescheduled date they're having issues with hotels giving them money back because it was already like booked and travel and the fans are pissed and they have still not made any video of like.

03:18.40 Ashley Why the phone.

03:20.49 tduval18 Hey we're sorry we understand and everyone's like we don't care about whatever exciting stuff you have we were we wanted to see you like people bought these as birthday presents and I kind of was not expecting for the Jonas Brothers to be their own downfall in 2024

03:34.90 Ashley Both like no explanation at all just like oh we have exciting news bitch. What is so exciting that you had to cancel a whole last thing.

03:43.28 tduval18 And well yeah, like move it back like what is happening that you're moving this all back.

03:48.44 Ashley I don't know but I would also be pissed it sucks that they can't do like refunds the hotels and chip That's what sucks even more.

03:59.23 tduval18 For real what I just feel like it also is like people take off of work. Not everyone has a job that's going to easily be like oh well ok, you took off this day but now you need to switch this day like some people's jobs. Can't do that.

04:02.43 Ashley So.

04:13.15 Ashley Literally.

04:15.37 tduval18 And so I'm like you really are screwing over all these fans and I think it would have been digested a little bit different if they weren't like oh we have something exciting and like didn't apologize like at least say sorry like you realize that you fucked up and like this is impacting people because it comes off very tone death of like we're doing something Cool. So. Fuck that you guys bought these tickets already.

04:34.34 Ashley But like I I Just don't know what is so important where you literally had to cancel right.

04:39.27 tduval18 So some people some people think and obviously this is gossip and allegedly that Nick and Priyanka are having another child via surrogate and that the due dates around that time and so oh.

04:53.45 Ashley Ah I feel that would be understandable if they just want to straight up.

04:58.50 tduval18 Right? Like I said if like that is what it is and they would say that then I think people will be like ok no, we totally understand like I get it by the fact that you're not really saying and then you're like we got something exciting for you Mitch. Nothing's exciting about me losing my money.

05:13.30 Ashley Um, yeah, right? No one gives. Ah.

05:15.32 tduval18 Nothing is exciting.

05:19.29 Ashley No one cares.

05:25.51 Ashley No one. But yeah I would be mad as fuck because their shit is not I'm sure it's not cheap close to the hotels is really what adds up. But.

05:32.10 tduval18 No, the hotels is what fucks me every time and that's why when we went and saw Taylor last year we actually ended up driving home because it was just Philly so like that's like a 2 hour drive it's not that bad, but the hotels were so like the prices were so skyrocketed. That me and Erica were like we rather just drive back home like we're going to have energy because like you know how you have that and high after a concert that's like you you just you're awake. You're vibe in you're pumped up like that kind of stays going for like out bit so like we literally just sang Taylor as if we didn't just see Taylor.

06:10.45 Ashley Literally I've never stayed and I drove 10 hours to see abandon drove back I've never bought a hotel.

06:11.60 tduval18 Driving home.

06:16.47 tduval18 I used to where am I my younger days but now I'm I'm like if I can get home unless it's like a plan like let's say like Jake and I were going to see I'll just use wallers because that's one of the few bands we both really like. We were going to see wallows in like Ohio and mulat Ohio what? let's say New York and we're like oh you know what we're going to go explore the city like the next day or something then I'd stay but like otherwise no because like what you were with me and Courtney we fucking drove. Um.

06:46.57 Ashley Um, okay, and.

06:55.50 tduval18 To Ohio and we did stay but like honestly I could have drove back I would have been fine driving back.

06:57.30 Ashley But driven that I've never yeah I've never stayed unless yeah unless Kevin I like plan to go somewhere and they're like oh let's just stay in the night for fun skis that way we can get up and like do something in the morning but straight out my ass is driving home I'm not staying the night.

07:13.31 tduval18 Um, just.

07:16.19 Ashley It's too expensive, especially with hotels knowing that there's an event they up those prices.

07:20.55 tduval18 All they are like Ha Ha we are gonna get you motherfuckers like you are gonna pay you were gonna pay.

07:27.56 Ashley Ah, let's fuck up most fuck up. That's what petty, especially like when there's like um I'm charged the same with you guys, but like whenever there's like c's or like a week long conferences or whatever.

07:42.17 tduval18 Move run.

07:45.98 Ashley And the hotels know that shit and they may they like up the prices they up as prices because they can I've never paid I've never reimbursed. They usually just pay like pay it.

07:51.70 tduval18 Yeah, do most of your companies pay that back if you go to one? Yeah I was gonna say see ours. Typically we pay it and then they reimburse us so it's not terrible. Um. But yeah I've seen where it's like crazy expensive and it's just it's insane that you make it so expensive when you're trying to like do something that's like for the betterment of you.

08:19.70 Ashley Um, I know that's fucked though I remember when I because like the past two years I went to Texas. And I remember seeing the receipt I think we stayed for like because my god I think it was maybe like 5 nights or 6 nights is probably like 6 nights and that shit was well over a well over a grand just for the hotel hotel.

08:39.10 tduval18 Yes, when I went to North Carolina last year it was like that like I was shocked and I I don't know I do think I'm I don't think I'm cheap I think I'm very like realistic. Like if I can find a good deal I'm going to find a good deal and so even though because I feel like a lot of people are like well it's the company's money who cares? Um, and I'm like see I'm opposite because I'm just like it's still so like it's still money and I think it also comes from my previous job where I had to actually like.

09:00.21 Ashley Um, he made. Um.

09:12.23 tduval18 Handle conferences like that and scheduling and booking them where it just they made me vary where I'm like I don't want to waste this money because I never know if they're going to turn around be like well why'd just spend X X Y Z So I I just be like it's your fault.

09:25.80 Ashley Um, because he approved it. That's why that's me I'm too big like like fuck the man.

09:31.37 tduval18 I need to be like that to be 100% honest I need to start being like that just because I think it's fucked me over always caring so much.

09:41.72 Ashley Yeah I don't know shit because I don't know I just feel like they don't really not not saying that all companies don't but it's just like you don't really give a shit like why should I.

09:54.78 tduval18 Well someone said that the other day and I think I have to I I think having a kid has made me change my perspective of this I used to be very like I want to be the best worker and I still am a great worker but someone posts it they're like don't. Kill yourself for a job because if you died tomorrow they replace you by the next month and I'm like that's that's true though. Like yeah I I feel like it's ingrained in me to do a good job like.

10:15.45 Ashley Oh yeah, I've I don't know I mean Phil I'm a good worker like I still like I'm the fucking best. But i'm.

10:29.62 tduval18 You've known me my whole life like I'm not going to half ask something even if I want to half ask something I'm still probably doing like 20% more than most but I'm also not now going out of my way to be like wild just because it's not important to me anymore like I don't want to work I don't want to live. To work I want to work to live so we actually speaking of conferences we had that the other day and that's what the 1 guy said in it and I really liked when he said that I was like this is because it was a work life balance one and I was like you ain't wrong sir you are not wrong.

10:50.53 Ashley Right.

11:03.28 Ashley Yeah, that's what my 1 doctor said because she's taking two months off like it's not paid. She's just like I mentally need a break and I was like I fucking feel you and she said that exact thing that's what maybe.

11:17.75 tduval18 Yeah, well I think it's just like sometimes like especially in America I feel like we have this perception of like you just have to work work work work work and I think we've talked about it before about like the older generations being like you just you do it. That's how it is and I think it's really detrimental because we don't realize how badly that affects people negatively like I know people who have hours and hours of vacation time and never take it because they feel like if they leave work for a day like things are going to crumble and that's so sad.

11:40.79 Ashley I will.

11:57.56 Ashley It is not.

11:58.13 tduval18 It's no way to live. So besides that you had an update for us to give us some information about a ship that you've seen.

12:06.60 Ashley It wasn't it's not a lot of information. It was just like I looked into it. It found a couple things thought it was cool but 1 it was like 1 Sunday and my fucking dogs are terrorists. So.

12:14.99 tduval18 I'm here for it.

12:24.17 tduval18 Um.

12:25.54 Ashley We went to sagamore which is like a distillery. It's not like a dis so is a distillery I don't know what they were celebrating some seventh year seventh anniversary but I don't know what the what the seventh year was because I know maybe it was just that location in particular because Howmo's been

12:30.48 tduval18 You.

12:40.59 tduval18 Yeah.

12:44.34 Ashley I think it's said Nineteen Nine I could be wrong I just remember seeing and everywhere like since 199 um, any fucking who they had like this huge event. It was so much fun. They had like food vendors outside there was games like um, they had the huge djanga. Obviously cornhole and it was just like a wholeass vibe like celebrating their seventh year of something so anyway I don't even know where it's at but cape washington the ship is docked there. And it's like this huge fucking ship and I thought that I thought it was just like straight decoration. But then my grandfather who knows everything about everything had said like no like that ship is active as fuck.

13:34.29 tduval18 Um.

13:42.85 Ashley So I guess if shit goes down it. They I think to for that shit to go like active active I think they only need like 5 to seven days to like get it up and running.

13:54.23 tduval18 Um, so like if walking dead was happening that's where we go.

13:55.43 Ashley So I think well I think the point of the ship and I totally could be wrong I think it's like a transporting ship. So if shit goes down in like Iraq or like Afghanistan because I know that ship has been.

14:07.89 tduval18 He.

14:14.61 Ashley Or maybe I don't know it's either been to Iraq or I ran I don't really know, but it's been to one of them. So basically I think it's to like transport like vehicles or like things that. I don't think that can be airlifted I think it's like okay well we're gonna take it over here on this big as ship. It's you know what? I mean I think that's what it is. It's like a hauler. Ah but well I mean if the walking dead happens. Obviously.

14:34.98 tduval18 Um, yeah, oh so if walking dead happens not go there.

14:47.52 Ashley It would be probably used for other reasons. But if there's a war. That's what it would be for so I think if there was like a legit zombie apocalypse they would probably use it to like stack some people up in that bitch or I don't know what they would do. But I think right now it's chillin under. I think it's I think it's alas like Alaska owns it. But it's just docked here I think that I think that's what it is but base I don't know I thought that shit was pretty cool I think it's like 42 years old or. So like that is really old I did I but I didn't know it was active.

15:31.71 tduval18 That's kind of crazy I mean I guess that makes sense like I don't always think about it I think we've talked about this before where like whenever I see like military cars driving or something always like Okay, what's Goingnoy but I never think about like ships like I don't know why I Just never think about. Like there are plenty of ships that you would be able to use granted speaking of walking dead I restarted it from the beginning and I am going to finish it this time I'm I'm determined but I always think about and walking dead I'm like well they could just go get on a ship and like they never. Do which now that I'm thinking about that that is kind of crazy like that they never did they no they didn't in any of the seasons and I'm like why didn't they like just go out on a big ship and then you just come to shore for like animals. To eat and then go back out on your ship like as you would need fuel.

16:31.76 Ashley I Don't know I guess like the maintenance of the ship too.

16:35.66 tduval18 I Mean someone has to have been alive from it and stayed.

16:42.29 Ashley I Don't know I Guess if you think about it. Could you really just like live on that ship but you would have to dock it. Well I Guess maybe you could I don't really know the maintenancecing of ships. But I feel like being in the water for like a long Well I mean it's been chilling there. In the water I Wonder if you could just live ownership while it's docked but like have certain way to like block off the actual dock itself that like leads from land to the ship so that the zombies can't get up in that bit. Oh you can make a draw.

17:06.96 tduval18 Um, yeah, yeah there there would have to be like there's definitely ways I mean.

17:21.83 Ashley Bridge.

17:22.65 tduval18 I mean if fucking walking dead made the whole town city of Andrew and what was it Andrew Andrea Alexandria Alexandria if they blocked off that and made it. You could definitely block off it like deck and just keep it going.

17:28.98 Ashley Fucking if I.

17:38.16 Ashley You can make a um bridge and just like wheel it down like like you would a flag you know like you take the rope and you lower it and you make it go higher. Can you do that with the bridge.

17:51.99 tduval18 Probably look. There's going to be someone who listens like an engineer or a builder and be like yes you can fucking do that over here.

17:54.15 Ashley And just see roll that shit up.

18:02.36 Ashley Okay, well, he's gonna be on our team when it comes to making bridges because that would be a nice as Chef have just be like stranded on.

18:16.83 tduval18 Who would who is your top type top 5 people in the zombie apocalypse that you're like I'm going to have them with me.

18:27.25 Ashley I'm I'm totally kidding I'm offering myself I'm not fucking I'm not I'm not gonna try to survive fuck that I don't even like my life right now like why do I want to stay in a zombie apocalypse.

18:35.87 tduval18 I mean you're not wrong, but let's say you did want to stay who would be your I'm taking Allen because Allen knows shit about all types of animals fishing like I'm taking alllan.

18:50.80 Ashley I don't know I don't know obviously I don't even know 5 people like that.

18:52.98 tduval18 Not your dog our friend allen just a case anyone was concerned I mean I love you and Jake but I don't know I've said before y'all can't see or hear that great.

19:09.57 Ashley I'm offering myself you don't even got worry about me not have to worry about me. Oh my god.

19:12.41 tduval18 Um, I probably you could take your landlord I'll let you have him because he hunts so Dave Hunts so there's we got Dave um, we need someone who's.

19:17.61 Ashley Okay, that's great. We love a her. I think Kevin will Kevin.

19:29.20 tduval18 I need someone who's fast Kevin is fast and you know what Kevin can do a split I've seen it so Kevin Kevin's on our team and I feel like Eric he's the hunter so Kevin Eric um I

19:38.35 Ashley Oh yeah, he's a he's a hunter.

19:46.70 Ashley There's your 5 right.

19:48.70 tduval18 I think that was my 5 No but I want a girl so you have to live I'll take you just so I have a girl wouldnt just be the only girl with all of that. Um, but they have annoy me and they be like god damn it.

19:53.12 Ashley Um, so you can why? Ah so true.

20:04.68 Ashley That's a solid team. Oh my God Speaking of um, oh my God What did you just say and I wanted to talk about it. Oh my God me not being able to hear I was.

20:20.52 tduval18 O lord.

20:20.61 Ashley Getting my hair done and bitch is so funny I guess there was like it's not funny, but like 1 of the other there was a lady who was getting her hair done. And I guess she didn't like it and she was being a fucking Karen about it like.

20:38.75 tduval18 And let me guess Sierra was listening in on it and you weren't able to hear it and missed all the good juicy details.

20:43.71 Ashley I wasn't saying no one's yeah I mean basically yeah because after this lady had left and then like the lady that was doing her hair. She like walked into the back she was actually really really sad like she was really upset. But yeah, so she's like did you did you hear any of that she's like did you hear what just happened I'm like no what she's like I didn't think you did because I kept staring at you like I wanted to make and she's like and you were just looking just. Like not like no idea what was going on I was like I one thousand first had I had no idea what was going on like I did not I like I wasn't and I don't have my head or anything I was just like I I'm my fucking business like i'm.

21:26.44 tduval18 See she. She's used to me where like I hear everything and you know this like I unintentionally will just like my It's probably not great but I can pick up on multiple people's conversations.

21:43.30 Ashley Um, because she was next to us so I'm almost positive like 99% of the people that she would have in that chair would have listened not I'm I'm I was just straight.

21:44.81 tduval18 And like hear them while still having a conversation.

21:53.69 tduval18 Have heard it.

22:00.40 Ashley Minding my business she was doing my hair and I'm just like I'm just doing what I got to do which is sitting there.

22:09.60 tduval18 Can imagine shout out to Sierra she does our hair. We love her I can imagine see her being like did you hear that and you just be like no but ah.

22:15.70 Ashley Like I knew you didn't know was going one like there was no way to tell you like to pay attention without being obvious I'm like okay.

22:25.90 tduval18 You're right? Well I just feel like this goes to like we've talked about it before is you are very like I don't want to say oblivious, but it is kind of like. You pay attention to like certain things and other things you can block out which is why I always get nervous that you're going to get kidnapped but sometimes I wish I could train my brain to be like that like I will unintentionally hear whole ask conversations like me and Jake were at dinner one time and I have like the people behind us were talking and they were like kind of loud. But they were like talking about their kids soccer and like arguing about it and I ended up hearing the like paying attention to the whole ass thing and I'm like I wish I could just like tune it out.

23:09.87 Ashley Um, what.

23:14.46 Ashley I mean I wish I knew more I don't know like I don't even mean to do it I Just tune everything out. Ah.

23:21.80 tduval18 You really do like and that's why I'm not I take it back I justice for me and Jackie being passenger side drivers because of that because I couldn't did this.

23:32.26 Ashley No, no, no, no, no, that's different being a passenger seat driver is oh my god speaking of Jackie she's calling me. It's so different because I will straight be driving and I I used to talk shit to Jackie all the f time because we'll be a drivein and there's like a parking spot. She's like oh you can turn right here into this parking place I'm like bit I can.

23:49.82 tduval18 I have.

23:51.86 Ashley I'm here or like turn here I know where I'm going. Oh.

23:57.32 tduval18 See I was actually telling you where to turn for safety purposes.

24:04.12 Ashley Um, ah let me text her really good. She called me.

24:04.72 tduval18 But I actually do a really good job like I think it's also because you know what you should be happy I'm going to take this back I'm I'm taking it Back. You should be happy because you're one of the few people that I actually trust to drive with. Because I typically don't like to drive with people and that was dangerous in the trenches of the back then so that's fair I mean you hit me in the face with a book bag while driving like in the car you are driving but we are the car attacked I.

24:21.90 Ashley Um, you've been driving with me since I was 16

24:27.31 Ashley I wasn't driving the car What we but harpping on. Ah.

24:37.41 tduval18 No I'm saying we were parked but like you did hit me in the face with a book Bag. So. Like I I endured a lot of abuse a lot of abuse by inanimate objects hitting me in the face.

24:47.86 Ashley Like ah.

24:55.82 Ashley Is is.

24:59.00 tduval18 But I wanted to do a quick review because every time everyone knows my girl released a new album and this bitch First of all, let me just tell you I don't want to add to the gossip.

25:10.87 Ashley Um, are row and.

25:18.00 tduval18 Actually I have never heard anyone say this. But I am gonna add say my own Gossip Taylor has to be on fucking adderall or just has like a crazy mind because let me let me paint the picture for you so 2022 end of 2022 she released midnights.

25:25.57 Ashley Um, ah are run.

25:34.52 tduval18 Beginning of 2023 like March she started the errors tour which is a worldwide tour where she's doing three and a half hours like multiple cities and this bitch was like oh by the way I'm releasing an album that I've been working on for 2 years where did you have the time Taylor where do you have the fucking time to work on this but okay and then at two a m she's like. Jokes on y'all it's a double album here's 31 fucking songs ma'am when do you sleep and it's a running joke in all of her songs. She does talk about like two a m so everyone's like this bitch is an thesomniac because she's just like up but this is probably 1 of her.

25:58.73 Ashley Um, ah.

26:05.44 Ashley But.

26:11.82 tduval18 More heartbreaking like lyrics wise album like it really felt like you were reading her diary and that's who that was so loud in that.

26:22.19 Ashley Um, other room I don't think they can hear me and I don't know what the fuck they're barking at ah.

26:25.96 tduval18 They're just sparking but it devastating the lyrics like and Taylor writes like it's her journal anyway. But this one was like I feel like even more of a deep dive but there's also like what I like what she did with this album is there's this levity of like.

26:35.23 Ashley Are.

26:43.60 tduval18 Her 1 song dancing with a I can do it with a broken heart has this very upbeat but then you listen to the lyrics and it's like wow she was really going through some shit and it's like the 1 lyrics like I cry a lot but I am so productive and it's just like there's so much.

26:53.48 Ashley I.

26:59.18 tduval18 Detail into it and don't get me wrong Taylor does leave detail into her music always but I feel like the level that's in this is even more of like wow like you're really decoding how she felt at this time and it's incredible I I think it's gonna.

27:00.41 Ashley So.

27:16.73 tduval18 It's going to push up into my my top 3 and that's saying a lot that's saying a lot because but it's hard I think I need a good solid. My friend Anna and I were talking about this I think I need a good solid month to like.

27:21.78 Ashley Wow.

27:33.40 tduval18 Listen to her whole discography go through it all and then really determine like my rankings for the albums because it's hard like she to me gets even better with age and so it makes it harder I'll be like oh my God Well this one I love because of nostalgia but like. This one is where I'm at now it's It's definitely.. It's a great album on So I'm shouting out to anyone to go listen to that album? Um, what else was it going to tell you oh we went to the mall which.

27:57.42 Ashley Cute I Love that.

28:10.84 tduval18 Is weird because I feel like we've that used to be our thing like we we lived in the mall we were all rats and it just seems so different seeing it as an adult and even like going at a hot topic. It's just different like.

28:14.27 Ashley Have really.

28:25.85 Ashley Oh my God It's so different. It's not the same.

28:29.18 tduval18 But they do have something I Really think we should get that red stripe so sweater like I would rock the shit out of that still today.

28:34.44 Ashley Um, ah, that's in a stack. It's yeah it was cute.

28:41.60 tduval18 And then what else do we of? Oh we did go to Walmart we went to wallie world and that was a long ass line fake news and I am sick sick to my stomach of these fucking.

28:49.30 Ashley Walmart went to. Well.

29:00.49 tduval18 Stores put in all the yummy, um, yummy like sweets and desserts right by the register because then I want to buy it and I understand your tactic but like fuck you for that tactic.

29:15.44 Ashley That's know that's how it is. That's like when you go to Ross or something oh my god those lines are the fucking worst because it's not just sweets. There's like chips and knickknacks and fucking like. Pens or brushes and I don't know it's just like a bunch of little like accessories or whatever the fuck as you're waiting in the line and you know how those lines are long as fuck. Always no matter where you go and that's where they get you. That's where they.

29:43.84 tduval18 They really do.

29:49.69 Ashley That's crazy.

29:52.60 tduval18 That is really where they get you like and' see I I do pretty good but you know where I fuck up at the most with those little things alter alter and Sophora I will go in with a mission of like I'm just getting foundation and then I go to that little thing I'm like well maybe I need to try these.

30:00.67 Ashley Are.

30:11.76 tduval18 Gold plated eye gel things and maybe I need to get you remember the like those masks that everyone loved like the cosmic but the fuck were they called? um I know you what were those fucking masks like Jeffrey Starr used them all the fucking time. Um.

30:31.41 Ashley But okay, a face mask because I don't know.

30:36.52 tduval18 I'm gonna find it because it's gonna bother me because I can picture it and they had like a unicorn one. Oh like what is that stupid Glam Glow Glam Glow those masks.

30:48.72 Ashley Um, oh I right.

30:51.20 tduval18 Those and like I'm like I don't fucking need this like.

30:56.45 Ashley And 2 They also get you because when you're waiting and you're like oh this is like a little thing that's probably like $10 no that shit like thirty fucking dollars and ah.

31:03.85 tduval18 Right? And and then it's awkward to be like oh no take that off.

31:11.71 Ashley Yeah, well no I ended up I ended up just getting it anyway. External like a bitch.

31:17.96 tduval18 That's what I'm saying like I'm too scared to be like no I would just like keep it on there like I'll see the price because I did that for something one time it was like a mini mascara that I wanted to try and that shit was like $20 and I was like oh.

31:31.21 Ashley Wow! yeah.

31:33.72 tduval18 I would have just bought the $35 actual one like the fuck.

31:38.91 Ashley Yeah, that's at the absolute worst That's where they get you those little those little things.

31:45.11 tduval18 For real for real. Do. That's also where they get me at Barnes and Noble's because I love bookmarks like I if you guys want to win my soul get me funny or cool bookmarks because I just. I love it.

32:04.79 Ashley A good little bookmark.

32:09.27 tduval18 It's just like it's a nice time. It is because like then you have I like you saw my 1 bookmark that Jackie got me that I love that it's like for 8 doesn't it look really cool and it's like I just I enjoy a good bookmark.

32:12.31 Ashley It's a nice time.

32:16.91 Ashley Earlier I Thought that shit was glass. Yeah.

32:26.69 tduval18 Like and even though I my 1 bookmark that I have I've literally had for 10 years yeah I'm a I'm I love a good bookmark. Um, and even like my mother in law's gotten me them now because like I I think people underestimate when I say.

32:33.83 Ashley That's q.

32:45.53 tduval18 Just like get me books or a gift card to Barnes and nobles I truly nothing makes me happier than that like nothing makes me more happy they like getting books and reorganizing my fucking bookshelf like that is the way to win my heart just.

32:48.71 Ashley Is.

33:04.65 tduval18 Get me books well give me books that I have said are on my list because you know.

33:04.86 Ashley Easy.

33:12.95 Ashley Yeah, you don't want a book that you're not into.

33:15.84 tduval18 Well no I'll read it. That's the 1 thing I'm working on is like if I start to read a book and I don't like it I have a bad habit of I will finish it even if I don't like it because I feel like I started it I should finish it I'm getting better now being like no I'm not interested in this and closing it. But I will read it but I have a list of almost two hundred books that are on my like to read list. So I have a plethora of things that I could be like you know you can get me these and I enjoy them. Also.

33:43.17 Ashley Bootie.

33:50.31 Ashley Um, what's good.

33:52.86 tduval18 This is a book pet peeve of mine if you are gonna get me books that you know are in a set make sure they match because some authors do this lovely fucking thing where they like have. 3 paperbacks that all match and then the fourth one is like off and I hate like I like continuity. So like I like my books to look very aesthetically pleasing. This has nothing to do with a person like buying it for we I'm just saying like this is author thing be like pay if you have one that's like off or like it just will.

34:17.84 Ashley Okay.

34:27.11 Ashley No get it.

34:28.39 tduval18 Like I'll use a hor of thorns and roses As an example, they did all of their books with this like plain color and then the last fucking book they put this fucking design on it and it just throws it off like he just throws it off and I'm a I'm a sucker for aestheticallyleasing books.

34:39.38 Ashley Um, a day.

34:44.52 tduval18 I will literally sometimes get a book because I like the aesthetic and they have no idea what the book's about.

34:51.10 Ashley That's how that's how a lot of like the like any type of product is is like if it looks good to the consumer. It makes them want to purchase it and that's with anything like if a lotion bottle looks cool and be like oh I'm going to get this because it looks Neat. So I feel you I get it.

35:08.33 tduval18 Um, I do think I view it better with products um of looking like the ingredients wise and really toning it down and getting more like not fully natural but just like better ingredients.

35:24.56 Ashley There you go.

35:27.65 tduval18 For it. Um, we went to Audis and you tasted I think you had someone here at my house. There's little mini oatmeal cookies them. Bitches are so fucking good there. So I got those because.

35:38.33 Ashley Um, ah doesn't who they were.

35:44.80 tduval18 Last time we went I got they had a bigger pack of like the actual cookies that are like round and I fucking devoured those so I was like here I'll get the little mini packs and I'll have more self-control. No I fucking want to eat them all day like they're so and they weren't even that expensive So I was like.

35:59.87 Ashley Um.

36:02.97 tduval18 Shout out to audies for that one. They you know what I fuck with audis and I told you and I'll if I remember this week when we go I'll get that blood orange hot sauce for you and Kevin they have like i. Really like that they bring a variety of different things in there that you can get to try that are like different but they also have a lot of really good stuff that doesn't have like additive preservatives and then they bring like they always have summer fall winter like the barbecue sauces and the hot sauces that they have right now are like a special for like. Some are coming up and then they'll do stuff for winter and I just I like the variety that they have and they have pretty good stuff.

36:40.48 Ashley I watched a with Shane Dawson he did like a conspiracy theory on like audies with like brand names and I feel like this is with I think they did it with like Walmart too. But it's like.

36:48.13 tduval18 Are.

36:58.60 Ashley Literally the same exact product like that they bought a whole bunch of shit from aldes and then bought a whole bunch of shit that was like the actual brand name and they did like a taste test like a blind taste test like the 1 person knew which one it was and like literally had no idea like.

36:59.19 tduval18 Ever.

37:17.00 Ashley Everything tasted the exact same and I um I almost feel like they. It's like how Costco is like Costco buys a bunch of shit and bulk like.

37:21.72 tduval18 Um, because because that's it is.

37:36.94 Ashley Ah, for example, like my grandfather is like a huge like again he knows like fucking everything about everything so they buy like actual like good whiskey like Brand name whiskey from like distilleries.

37:51.79 tduval18 Ah.

37:51.81 Ashley I don't know if they like produce too much or something so that Costco is like we'll buy it. So then when they buy it, they rebottle it but in their name so it's like this whiskey brand but they're just putting it in a different bottle but it's still that whiskey brand. So I think that that's what these like store names be doing with their like Aldi Brand is like they buy all these like brand names shit and then they just repackage it in theirs. That's a theory.

38:29.75 tduval18 I think it is now I think it fully is and that's why I started doing more of getting like certain balk items or going to audies now I will say though like Costco B J Sam's Club they are also dangerous.

38:30.18 Ashley Don't know if that's true. But for Costco true but I don't know about the food.

38:48.71 tduval18 Because you get stuck in the of oh I can get this balk thing and it will end up being cheaper and sometimes it's actually not like I found a few times where I was like oh it would have been actually cheaper for me to get this like somewhere else most of the time it is but like I don't know how you get but me and Jake can get wild when we go in there because I'm like whoa. Of course we need a 38 slice pack thing of cheese. Do. We? no, it's just fucking 2 of us. We really don't but like it seems like a good idea when I'm in there.

39:19.37 Ashley Before Kevin and I have only been to Costco with each other a handful of times I would always go with Jackie and I feel like buying a bulk is always the way to go it when not with like cheese but like.

39:27.76 tduval18 Um, sister.

39:37.51 Ashley Buying bulk item like the paper tow this with anywhere like any any warehouse store like that like.

39:39.15 tduval18 I feel yes yes paper towels soap like dish soap dish um pods laundry detergent like all of those yes 100% in bulk.

39:46.97 Ashley So yeah.

39:54.47 Ashley So that's it it would? Yeah ah.

39:56.56 tduval18 I I'm iffy about doing like my body wash and shampoo and stuff because I get very where I like I do want to change it up to kind of help reduce buildup but I am a sucker for like let's just get it in a balk for our.

40:07.25 Ashley Wow wow.

40:13.95 Ashley Oh yeah, love that unless it's me wolf for.

40:14.29 tduval18 Laundry detergent and stuff but like food I feel like I unless it's for like when we have our cookout we will go to Costco's or Bjs because we know we're going to use it but like. Only things I feel like we should meet it like it for our household get in balk like food wise is like eggs because we go through a lot of fucking eggs and like certain things that I'm like oh coffee creamer I know I'm going to drink this coffee creamer. So let me do a big one. But.

40:35.46 Ashley 3

40:42.89 Ashley Um.

40:45.43 tduval18 like sometimes I'm like I think we get roped in and then I'm like Jake we're not going to fucking use this like we're going to use half and that's worse like I'm like then it really is wasting money. Oh well, that was my only updates this week um we may be.

40:54.70 Ashley Ah, what? wow.

41:04.18 Ashley Um, ah oh fuck. Yeah, that's right, That's gonna be so much fun.

41:04.83 tduval18 Doing a wine and paint by numbers this weekend. Because because it's a vibe and maybe we can get like a canvas too and I can do Parker's footprints and like slowly start doing his as they get bigger I am going to do so this year I need to probably order this soon. I Want to get a tree skirt.

41:20.35 Ashley Of.

41:29.78 tduval18 So I saw this on Tiktok I want to get a tree skirt and then paint each of our hands like and put it on the tree skirt and then as each year he gets older at our hands and his as he gets older and like type put the year and then eventually I'll just have a whole tree skirt with every year up until. He tells me he doesn't want to do it anymore.

41:48.88 Ashley Wow Will that be some shit I don't know was asked. Do we be like no, you're doing this because we're hurt. Yeah literally it takes one second you can clean your hands afterwards suck it up.

41:51.29 tduval18 Well memory like like and forever you are doing this until we run out of space. This is it. For real what because I feel like and it's no offense to my mom or anything like I feel like we we have different memories right? Like we have photographs and like certain things like that. But I feel like there's a lot more creative things now like Rachel sent me this thing where you can do a cast. Of like your hand your baby's hand in a mold and then it's like you can have it as like a little statue and I was like that's really cool like I would have never thought of that a few years back of having like that's just a memory of like this is like your little hand or your little foot and so I feel like we just have cooler stuff now. That we can make or people are so creative that they like post it of things that you can do is like a family that's way more memories to have besides the scrapbooks that I still haven't completed. I have a wedding scrapbook that still not done that.

42:56.83 Ashley Bitch who are you telling I have okay well I have a first our first year anniversary scrapbook that I started the 2 pages and I haven't. Have it like I still have a scrapbook on all the things I was going to use.

43:12.25 tduval18 Maybe that's what we should do one of these days like do a scrapbooking day because I know Kim also wants to like she has a wedding scrapbook that she wanted to do and I think Shannon does too and so we should all just be like you know what we're gonna print the fucking pictures out. It's gonna be this day. We're doing our fucking scrapbooks. Get some wine and just everyone do their fucking scrapbooks that we would say we're gonna do for years.

43:40.14 tduval18 I really do want to do it especially because I also want to actually make like I will give props to Kim Kardashian for this. She was showing like she has this scrapbook for her kids and it has like highlights throughout that year and then she writes them a letter every year and it's in the scrapbook.

43:40.15 Ashley Honestly I'm down to fuck.

43:56.71 Ashley Oh.

43:59.31 tduval18 And I was like that's actually a really good idea I was like I really do want to do that I feel like that's something that's really cute. It's sentimental. You can instead of keeping like 8000 things of like their artwork. You can pick like a few highlighted ones throughout the year put that in there I like that idea.

44:13.69 Ashley I Think that is cute.

44:17.61 tduval18 We also need to make sure if we take a picture again recently we're overdue for our eskimocuses picture and I'm really upset that we never did that for our weddings I'm very upset that we didn't do that like I think about that irrationly so often where I'm like.

44:19.89 Ashley I Forgot that would you.

44:36.20 tduval18 Wow We fucked up that was a really big missed opportunity.

44:39.83 Ashley If that wasn't this opportunity that is a shame.

44:42.13 tduval18 Well at Shannon's wedding and at my own wedding we have I have a picture. Well so at my at Camem and Sean's wedding I have a picture of me cam Sean and Jake we were. We never took 1 at my wedding to do the opposite. But we got one at Shannon's wedding so I was like okay, but still I was like wow we fucked up like for years. We always said oh whenever I get married. We'll recreate the same picture fucking forgot I was like wow great guys. But also I feel like.

45:08.76 Ashley Who.

45:19.76 tduval18 If you are having a what this is my biggest advice One don't um I mean that in a nice way of like it's just so much money to get married like just have like a little small ceremony. Whatever. But if you are doing like the whole big smart ceremony and everything and you get a photographer.

45:25.37 Ashley Ah.

45:39.71 tduval18 I Wish I would have worked with our photographer beforehand and said like these are my I want to have poses no matter what so that I got them because there were so many that I wanted to do but like the day of the wedding happening I didn't think about it. So then it wasn't like. On the list of oh I Want to get these like specific ones done. So I feel like the same way you work with your deejay of like a list of songs I would work with your photographer be like these are some poses that I Really like.

45:58.81 Ashley So I heard that I heard the fuck out of that.

46:11.64 tduval18 They're non-negotiable like for me if my photographer been like bitch. You said you wanted this I'd be like you're right, Let's do it like and that would have been like that time I would say definitely work with your photographer and get like your set set days like set poses because there are so many that I was like Wow I wish I did that.

46:30.26 Ashley I agree with that. But ah fun.

46:35.11 tduval18 Also I think I think I was really funny I I'm fucking funny I just want you to know because that was now I'm thinking about that me saying don't was hilarious look sometimes a fucking funny guy. He's 9 times have a 10 I'm a bitch but like ah.

46:44.42 Ashley That was funny.

46:53.95 tduval18 1 time I'm funny. All right? So we will be back next week um I don't know what we're going to talk about next week but we're still working on some things we are going to try like sooner or later again to start recording in person again a few times and I would really liked us to film a few episodes, especially when we do the like. That game. Um, right in tell us some topics you want to hear us say and otherwise we'll be back next week with another episode bye.

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