Hello and welcome to Revolutionize Your Love Life.

Today we are doing R for relationships. Please drop me a like or hashtag replay if you are watching again later. I wanna go back though and look at where we began.

There's D, which is desire, and the capital of that is defining. D is for defining what you really want in your love life, the qualities of relationship, the qualities of your feelings, and in that particular life we set out your intention, which is the most beautiful way of deciding and choosing for yourself how you want to live, how you want to be, and how you want to love and be loved.

From there, we went into exact E for exact, and we created a visioning in which you could feel how it felt and how it will feel to be loved and loving in the way that you've described in your intention. We do that because it shifts things in your mind and your brain literally shifts things in your brain, creates new pathways, and you start to live from that vision that you have of happy love, and then you start to behave differently And the universe will then conspire in the most positive way. It will present you with obstacles to overcome or opportunities to grow and to change, to really move from the place that you are now, which if you're listening to this, is probably one of anxiety or shame or guilt or fear, apprehension, self-protection, you may not know it, but all of those things will be at play if you really haven't done your work. Don't say it's easy. I've done a lot myself and I'm still a work in progress, but step by step, it's getting better and I see that for my clients. I just love it. I had three marriages last year and three get togethers and a new baby amongst my clients, which just gives me such joy.

S is for self development and it's an important part. You need to get to the bottom of the trauma that you may have felt from emotional neglect as a child. And this doesn't mean that our parents were bad people, it just wasn't in the zeitgeist, it wasn't in the ether. In those days. So often we are neglected children inside and we are trying to have relationships from that place, and it just doesn't work. We either give away power and make other people our parents, or we go into a parental role and look after other people and don't get our feelings and needs met. So that's S for psychological development, emotional development, all the self-development you need to really carry you through to wholesome romantic love.

And last time we did I for Invincible, and this is to really look at what drains you, what holds you back in your life now, and how to become invincible to any negativity. Because as you change, other people may not want you to change. They want you to stay the same. They won't want you to be setting boundaries with them. They'll want you to be as overgiving as you always have. If that's your thing, they'll envy you potentially, and you need to make yourself invincible to being shamed or made to feel guilty or made to feel self-doubting or fearful. All those things that reinforce the way that you protect yourself in love relationships on an unconscious level, of course, you wouldn't be doing it on purpose.

Today we are doing r, r is for relationships. So we've done some very profound work on your relationship with yourself and with your heritage from your formative years and the most important people in your life and the sense that you have made of all of that, and the truth that you felt it to be about you if you're not worthy or not good enough, any number of limiting beliefs, and we've looked at the legacy of those limitations and tracked some ways to overcome them. This stage is perhaps one of the most simple pieces, relationships, It's a sort of active piece rather than introspective piece. So you must surround yourself with good support with people who have like minds are on this same manifestation journey, the same miracle creation journey, the same determination to grow and change. Be the best you you can be. It's become a cliche to be the best you you can be because so many people really wanting to do and be that. Now that's so beautiful to see. We are part of a a wave of love that's passing across the globe, moving back and forth just beautifully with the tides, creating more and more love with each lap at the shore. So you'll notice that you do want to gravitate people towards people who are on similar paths to you. They want to be empowering of you as you are of them. There's a much more even give and take. They help you look after your feelings, needs, desires and aspirations, and you support them with theirs so that equal flow waves back and forth between you, they're excited for you rather than envious of you, and they give to you rather than endlessly ask of you. You may need to really actively search these people out. That might be online or it might be finding local meetup groups with similar ideals and aims.

Sometimes this can be a lonely patch because you are leaving behind what no longer serves you and you're moving towards a goal that may not always be in view. It's like trusting a map or trusting your sat nav. You know it's taking you there, but you can't necessarily see the paths and some of the roads are windy, so you need to be conscious.

You might like to join one of my groups, the Conscious Uncoupling Coach LED group, if that's where you are, if you're needing to complete old pieces of relationship, or you might want to join the calling in the one group. It's the official coach led group for Europe and beyond. I would love to see you there. It's my heartfelt wish that each and every one of you watching here today creates that miracle of true love in your life, fulfills your own ambitions, creates a wonderful life in which you are calm, contented, excited, joyful, full of love to give, and really open and receiving of love into your heart. Thank you, thank you, thank you for being part of this journey with me. Next time, it will be e, E for exact, E for energy, E for enthusiasm. The next piece, bye for now.