00:00.00 tduval18 Yo Yo yo Yo we are back. How are you? How's it to be famous.

00:03.39 Ashley We're back.

00:10.21 Ashley Well, it's pretty intense right now. So I totally get it and just to let everybody know. Um I was in a like an extra and a crown the empire music video and they just dropped the music video today. Check it out. Crown the empire dogma and if you pause it real quickly at 59 seconds you'll see me standing there second from the right looking cute in my little cult outfit and I was also because Andy was like posting about the music video. And if you scroll over to the fourth photo. You can see a little blurry me in the background I'm like oh my god I'm like so famous or whatever it wasn't so insane. It's just so cool to like really see that it till I actually see it because it's been like away over a month since we did it and I'm just like getting impatient I know they have to edit and everything but it was so cool to just like be on set watch it happen and then finally like see every like to actually see the video. And it's crazy that like they make you do all these different scenes and then when you actually watch it. It's like they didn't even put in half of the things that we did you know what? I mean like it was so cool. It was a good time.

01:26.74 tduval18 Yeah, because they have to like edit it. That's wild like proud of you Also proud of you like keeping this like a little secret you did a good job.

01:36.19 Ashley I Did she did do a good job I can't wait until I want to post it.

01:44.23 tduval18 We'll post it on the podcast one two. Um, what else have you been up to.

01:52.39 Ashley Ah, um, while I was I did um and so we were like off to the side kind of like we're on the left I know this is just a theory. This is just a theory.

01:55.82 tduval18 Didn't you go to another show last week

02:04.50 tduval18 Goodness.

02:09.72 Ashley I Like kind of standing I don't like being directly in the front depending on the type of band because people fucking crowdsurf and I'm trying to like be into it and like you know sing and then you get kicked in the head and like have to stop for a second. So like being dead in the center isn't for me.

02:16.81 tduval18 There's a.

02:28.78 Ashley So I've noticed I like yep and I like being on the left side because they if if you're on stage they go towards the left side because that's their right side and just naturally most people just like go to the right.

02:29.31 tduval18 Um, I'm a left side girlie.

02:41.75 tduval18 In fact.

02:43.86 Ashley So I like go being on the left because of that reason you don't get hit and the lead singer tends to go towards the left side of the stage more. But anyway yeah.

02:50.90 tduval18 Last show I went to Frank was on the left I was on the left I'm just the left on your left kind of person.

02:58.21 Ashley Left girl and so I guess 2 dudes in the mosh just didn't fuck with each other so they were like scrapping and they fell no but they bitch they fell and they were like.

03:10.95 tduval18 Um, we love a good fight in the fucking pit.

03:16.86 Ashley They like slid and they were like fighting in our area and I'm like dude I'm trying to fuck it Lizard is music role who can you take side and the security it is an inconvenience and then the fuck is security Guard did not do shit literally the big ass dude the security guard.

03:24.31 tduval18 Feel like this is an inconvenience.

03:34.82 Ashley And he all he did was like flash his flashlight at him and it wasn't it had to have been one of the dude's girlfriends but there are't no ways some random chick is going to break it up so she comes pulls the dude off and is like pushing him. She's like pushing him and she's like.

03:46.21 tduval18 Accident. That's some shit I would do.

03:51.25 Ashley I Don't know what she's saying. It's so loud. All I she's just like talking to him and then I guess the other dude's friend was like holding him back and the security guard is just sitting there I'm like bitch why the fuck not why you're here.

04:04.47 tduval18 He said I don't want the smoke So I don't want the smoke I'm out you was not about it. Can I tell you what the fuck I did today. Um I can't say where or whatever. But for what.

04:06.60 Ashley Um, he did not want the he to know.

04:13.69 Ashley Kind of a I Love the way your hair looks I love it when you have your hearse look back like that side note yeah.

04:19.86 tduval18 What is it where he's like you should wear your hair push back like anyways, sorry when you said that but thank you thank you I always like struggle with it because sometimes I don't feel like I'm a like I don't feel like I have the face structure to do it. But then other times I'm like really into it. But today we for work. We went to a career fair where we were speaking to eighth graders. Um, first of all and I was on the part of like interview do and don'ts first of all I don't know what we're feeding kids these days but all almost every single one of these eighth graders boys and girls worked taller than me.

04:41.82 Ashley And of main.

04:57.64 Ashley No fucking way for you.

04:58.36 tduval18 And I'm tall. Yes, yes, there was only a handful that were shorter than me I was like I feel short right now like this 1 kid had to be six foot like no joke he had to be six foot and I was like I was like you're in eighth grade like I feel some type of way and then it was so cute because we were like talking through. Um.

05:10.41 Ashley Um, you know? yeah.

05:17.51 tduval18 Like different things you should do for an interview and I was like you know you don't want to lie on your resume. You shouldn't be saying that like I was like if I was putting on my resume that I have ah 30 years of experience in pharmacy like they might question that and she's like how old are you when I was like 30 and she's like oh and I was like I don't know if that was a good thing or not and I'm like am I being judged by this eighth grader. Like I'll take it like whatever but it was just crazy because I was like wow like I don't remember being and like all of these kids were really engaged in the conversation like i. Speakers of randomly coming just like middle school and I was not as engaged like they all were actively engaged making eye contact like they did a really good job and I was like cool like I'm okay with the future if these are like the kids um but it was really fun and so and then they were like well I heard you can't have tattoos or piercings and I was like well I'm a manager and. Do you see tattoos and piercings and stuff on me and she's like yeah I was like I think it just depends what company you're going for I also think that it's outdated now too that like that's still something that we judge people on at first you have the first session because we did four sessions.

06:14.72 Ashley Um, where that's true. Did you feel like intimidating.

06:27.76 tduval18 But different kids at first I was like sweating I was like oh my god and then I got like in the group of it where I was like okay I feel good but I was deaf the first one I was like a whole fuck like what if these little 8 graders judge me especially because middle school. We've said I don on't here before like middle school is terrifying.

06:43.65 Ashley No for real and in the thing is um because I was listening to that a standup John Mulaney and he's not wrong. He's like I think he said thirteen year olds which is but is middle school in it. Yeah anyway, he's like 13 year olds they.

06:56.69 tduval18 Um, middle school Eighth grade. Yeah.

07:01.29 Ashley Make fun of you into the thing that bothers you the most and who was making fun of himself. He's like oh look at that man. He got feminine hips and I'm like that's true. So that's why I asked I was like did you feel intimidated because I feel like I would be intimidated because they would probably make fun of me in my most.

07:03.20 tduval18 Your biggest insecurity.

07:19.20 tduval18 Well yes, but also I I had to think about like we've talked about this before of like our perceptions of ourselves that I still sometimes think I'm like a fucking kid like I'm like an eighth grader. So then I was like no like I'm I'm an adult like I'm the adult in this situation and I'm like that's insane that like.

07:19.68 Ashley Sensitive or.

07:29.76 Ashley Move here.

07:38.77 tduval18 I am the adult of it because I'm walking through the school like I feel like I I'm just an eighth grader two like I still be like I'm like 15 I'll tell you off I'll tell you often you know protected. no no no no no I didn't get ours I know I'll text you for it.

07:41.81 Ashley Where did you go single tax way I mean but you didn't go to our middle school. Did you.

07:55.24 tduval18 Um, but I also wanted to talk about shout out to Pat Remy fricking Kevin Jonas saw his um like his story and his slides of like the Jonas Brothers and the Jonas Brothers what followed it like watched it. Yeah, he just if you check.

08:08.93 Ashley Ah I didn't know that Holy fuck.

08:14.13 tduval18 The podcast when he sent it to us and I was like that's so cool and I was like great for Kevin like we we love Kevin out here. He's he is the relatable one. But also I don't know if you do this or you might have said this I feel.

08:21.69 Ashley Wow That is really cool.

08:32.63 tduval18 Like some type of way ever since I found out you're like star on hollywood like you have to put an application in for it like they don't like grant it to you like they don't decide like you have to actually like pay for it and put an application in so like the star on the hollywood walk of fame because remember we're Trump by Joni brothers.

08:45.32 Ashley But what is it.

08:52.28 tduval18 You actually have to put an application in and get approved and pay for it for you to get it right? I was like that kind of makes me feel some type of way like I always thought it was like oh they decided that you were like good enough to be on there and.

08:56.86 Ashley Oh.

09:09.83 tduval18 Now I'm like oh that's kind of like kind of sucks that's fun. Its fun. Um I don't have much for us to talk about today but I wanted to talk about so you know our boy Logan Paul right he he created a hydration drink and a energy drink.

09:10.73 Ashley Like laha.

09:21.58 Ashley Oh right right.

09:29.58 tduval18 So Jake actually got us the hydration ones and I had it yesterday. You can't drink it because you die um, it's made with coconut water. So maybe you might be able to do the energy drinks. Um, but I had it and dude it was good like I was like oh I would get this again like 10 has 10 I'm getting.

09:35.39 Ashley Yeah.

09:47.78 tduval18 Prime versus getting gator eat if I'm about to drink like this was good. Yeah I was really surprised I I do have to look up if the energy drink has coconut in it because I would love for you to try it. But I like looked on the bottle and speaking of looking on the bottle Tick Tock teaches me something.

09:49.40 Ashley Wow! Good for me.

10:06.69 tduval18 Every day every day. Do you want to know what I learned last night do you know that a lot of the creamers in America are banned in other countries because we use vegetable oil in our creamers.

10:06.95 Ashley For.

10:15.89 Ashley Yes, and you know another thing that's banned that a lot of countries don't have is the high fructose corn syrup. For example I you know that.

10:23.15 tduval18 I Knew the hot I I knew the high courtt stress I did know that because I always thought that that was it but literally I did not know about the vegetable oil and so I checked my creamer because I have a non dairy one. It has coconut cream ah oil in it. So It was like what the fuck. So now I got beef like I'm like I don't like that's no wonder I'm get fat drink coffees y'all put in fucking oil in that shit you went think that.

10:51.22 Ashley That's weird too because you wouldn't even you don't even know. Yeah.

10:56.12 tduval18 Well I was over here like no, that's ah, fucking true like I was like fuck Tik Tock it's lying and then I went and looked and I was like no holy shit. It really is so now I'm like I have to be mindful of that I'm going to be checking that shit like a lot of foods here are so processed that they they are banned in other countries which is insane to me because then I'm like.

11:12.29 Ashley 1 home.

11:15.60 tduval18 Dude we to eat healthy it costs so much like it's ideally yes what I loved to you like a meatless day and have all like organic produce and everything but that that should costs so much and it's like it's just cheaper to go grab a fucking burger but the fact that now I got to be careful that you got oil in my fucking coffee cream. But.

11:25.40 Ashley Be for real.

11:35.40 tduval18 Like Square up. Why what? What? Why do we put oil in there like I was I was genuinely mad as fuck about this like sitting there like ready to rage I could not believe that.

11:36.90 Ashley Said that is the weirdest.

11:49.88 Ashley Yeah I couldn't I The the whole old thing is weird. Yeah, that shit's weird stay crack again. No as I say crack again.

11:53.51 tduval18 All ok Baltimore say it again. Say it again or what what cardigan so yeah, stick right? again, you know what.

12:08.94 Ashley Like what mean girl.

12:12.76 tduval18 You want to know the most quote that I ever quote for mean girls. Can you take a guess guess.

12:15.61 Ashley Oh I don't know that more. That's my name.

12:26.38 tduval18 I'm a pusher Katie I push people I say that I say that and none for Gretchen wieners more than anything else I don't know why I say I will say that like.

12:34.34 Ashley Think that's the least thing I say is none for gun to winners I never say that.

12:40.61 tduval18 They're like oh there's no more left and I'm like noneforredueners like I don't know why that one really always hits for me and I want my pink shirt back but I be saying that to anything like stupidly like Jake Jake took something and I was ah was like food and I was like I want my pink shirt back.

12:49.38 Ashley True. Yeah yeah.

12:56.46 tduval18 And I'm like he has no idea what the fuck I'm talking about but like I do quote that one a lot and then super bad. We no I like what he I like when he's like that's a cool fucking story. We would tell it to me again like I will in my head I quote that more often than people should ever know because they probably think that I was being a bitch but like.

12:59.76 Ashley We love you? Oh yeah, super bad, all the way I fucking Love super bad.

13:15.64 tduval18 Sometimes people tell me shit and I literally that's the first thing that pops in my head.

13:18.35 Ashley I think I quote more super bad that I do mean girls.

13:21.77 tduval18 Yeah, you do I also quote Steve Glansberg quite a bit especially for you when you're like I would had to go by myself to this and I'm like okay fucking Steve Glansberg like mewhile I'm over here like I am Steve Glansburg he is me and I am okay with it.

13:27.59 Ashley Ah, yeah, fucking Stephen Glensburg

13:36.17 Ashley Um.

13:40.59 tduval18 Like I'd rather go somewhere by myself like 99% of the time.

13:46.33 Ashley I gotta really be in it like ah well I'm gonna go to another show by myself. Why was it going through.

13:46.66 tduval18 I know we're working on it. Proud of you. Don't say where because you know safety purposes tell me off of this but I'm proud of you proud of you taking the the step of being comfortable by yourself. Do you? There's a question do you and Kevin have passwords on your phones. Do you guys know each other's passwords. Okay same but does Kevin go through your phone or do you go through Kevin's like vice versa freaking insane f freaking insane i.

14:08.85 Ashley Yeah, yeah.

14:18.71 Ashley No no like.

14:25.42 tduval18 So why I'm bringing this up is I saw this video where they were like spouses should not have passwords on their phone and their spouse should be able to go through their phone whenever they want and I was like I kind of disagree with this Jake and I both have pay.

14:36.81 Ashley The password that the password is because I've literally had my phone stolen and I did not have a password on it like my phone was taken and it didn't so here got stolen I'm like well now I got to put a fucking password on it.

14:46.23 tduval18 Yeah. So mine's just like I've always had a password and I think it's also because for my company when I used to have my work email on my phone you have to have one because it's like a secure email and then since that I just always have one but. I like at any point time Jake can have my phone if he wanted to look at it. We don't look at each other's phones but I don't feel like because they were like it's you're being sneaky if you have a password and your spouse doesn't have it and I'm like not necessarily There's just like I love my husband but sometimes I might be talking shit about him to you. He don't need to see that. 1 I'll talk to him and say it but like you know sometimes just stuff you just talk with your friends that's just like your friendship and I'm like I don't feel like just like Jake has a fucking giant giant group text. It makes me crazy of like.

15:31.27 Ashley In him.

15:42.89 tduval18 His core four friends and then like a few others and some people he don't have numbers and like Kobe texan in that shit and I'm just like can you save their number but I know you are and you and Jacob are the same person but like I don't feel the need to go through his phone for shit like.

15:52.83 Ashley I'm I'm bad at that I'm also bad at that.

16:02.66 tduval18 I personally and this is like probably gonna come off I think there's always good to have a little bit of privacy or like I don't want to say secrecy but like there's just pieces of yourself that you could still unravel year like we're 10 years and deep and sometimes Jake surprises me with stuff but I don't feel like I need to go through his phone. First of all, he's probably looking up dumb shit.

16:10.87 Ashley Wonder.

16:21.67 tduval18 Just like I look up dumb shit like if I die I I'm gonna make a will I'm actually not kidding about this like I really do want to make a will but I want like you or Rachel to have my password and clear out my phone because I Google search like I go through sometimes and clean that.

16:26.37 Ashley 3

16:38.23 Ashley It will seem her.

16:38.47 tduval18 Google search weird fucking shit that like the world doesn't need to know like the world does not need to know some of the shit that I Google and I need someone to clear my phone not because I'm hiding anything but just like no you know in the day and age now.

16:47.92 Ashley So.

16:54.47 Ashley E.

16:56.90 tduval18 Where everything is on the internet I would not There's just some things that I'm like the world doesn't need to know that but I want your thoughts on it like would do you think that that's sneaky if you guys don't have each other's password like if Kevin was like no I'm not giving you my password like would you think something's up. Or would you just be like all right? Cool yeah, be like I always guess Jake's but I guessed his the 1 time and he's like how did you do that and I'm like you're sitting next to me.

17:14.20 Ashley I Would just be like why? yeah kind of I would really well why the fuck.

17:29.50 Ashley You're predictable. But.

17:31.80 tduval18 Well yes, but he's also I was like you're sitting next to me like I've done that with other people's phones before where like I guessed their password because I was sitting next to them and I saw him enter it and I was like I your passwords this and they're like how did you when I'm like I pay attention to detail very much. So.

17:43.95 Ashley To detail as in you're looking at them as they're putting in the password.

17:48.30 tduval18 Yeah, but not intentionally like if I'm sitting next to you and you're put in your password and we're talking about something like I'm gonna notice it. That's just but I also don't care like I would probably give my phone to almost everyone.

18:02.50 Ashley No no.

18:07.45 tduval18 There's some people that I'm like that would hurt their feelings. So Maybe not um, but no I Just I think it's weird like I think it's weird that we have this, We're in a day and age now where people feel like you have to know every intimate part of your spouse or they're doing something sneaky. Like I don't think that that's sneaky like sometimes you just want your own thing. That's just yours like that's easy. But then again me and you are the ones who are like we don't have to spend every waking bath and moment with our Spouses. So.

18:41.71 Ashley Oh yeah.

18:44.18 tduval18 And that seems to be out like out of pocket for people and I'm like I can't like I know I have to annoy the shit out of Jake sometimes and so I'm like no like I love him I I always love him but I like to do things on my time and me and Jake have very different.

19:01.62 Ashley E.

19:02.17 tduval18 Time tableables for things just in the reality of it like if Jake's meet and his friends at six thirty and I think I've said this before they're all probably leaving their houses at six thirty they're gonna get there when they fucking get there I'm leaving. Probably an hour early to make sure that like if it's a faraway place and then I could find a good parking spot and like I know I could see this like I need to be prepared I can't stand not being prepared like I hate going somewhere and not knowing what the parking situation is we don't do that anymore.

19:20.28 Ashley 1 1

19:31.40 Ashley I.

19:33.63 tduval18 Like let me let me clarify this as a thirty year old woman if you invite me somewhere and it has street parking I'm probably not coming like unless it's like back in street parking and even that I don't even like going to street parking anymore I want there to be a space where I can park my car.

19:44.87 Ashley Um, dude I straight up I've been to um, two shows. Well I've been to many shows and in downtown L a. But the last one we just went to was in downtown a and I drove this time because usually if I go um I go with my friend and she drives I will not I would really really have to want to see this band because bitch there is no. 0 There's 0 parking. There's not even like street parking. It's literally you have to find a parking garage or you have to find a like a parking somewhere to pay to park but L a fucking sucks.

20:30.73 tduval18 Oh yeah.

20:33.30 Ashley And it's not your you know $10 like bitch. They will charge you like thirty forty fifty dollars to park there and they're that's the only place to park they do it because they can because there's nowhere else to park and it's.

20:43.17 tduval18 And.

20:47.68 Ashley I Would really have to with all my heart have to want to see a band if they're going to be playing in downtown L A because fuck that.

20:52.80 tduval18 I Just I I personally am protecting my piece and did we tell the story about what happened with Abby'sburger bitro when you guys were here. Okay, let's let's fucking talk about this. So as y'all just heard me say.

21:04.77 Ashley Honestly I don't know but we can we can talk about it again. But unboxes.

21:12.54 tduval18 I do not like street parking I don't like to have to parallel park unless it's like a back end which is another thing I don't pull into spots I always back in because I want to be able to have a quick exit. Whatever easier exit. So.

21:21.65 Ashley Yeah, um.

21:27.41 tduval18 Ashley and Kevin are here in town and they're like we're going to Abby's bistro which you know is the place where they have the different meets everything. There is one in what is it fells fos. So.

21:34.99 Ashley Well to be there. There's how I how many are locations. There's like 10 locations.

21:48.40 Ashley I'm at the look at up and see how many locations there are.

21:53.49 tduval18 Oh oh my god.

21:56.87 Ashley So front 1 ne's close okay 1 2 3 oh my god once you all my fucking computer would work.

22:06.31 tduval18 How many locations are there.

22:14.20 Ashley Come on now. Well I won't let me scroll down right now there's four I know there's more than 4 but okay, just just to let everybody know there's multiple locations and I didn't know that.

22:17.76 tduval18 Well anyways, so.

22:27.17 tduval18 So I didn't know that either I've only been to the one down fells so we had this plan. We're all going there. So I drive down there I'm driving not Jake because I try to be mindful that like Jake drives all day for work. So sometimes he doesn't want to drive sometimes he does like he actually genuinely likes driving. But like I try to be mindful of it because I hate driving most of the time unless unless I'm not driving with like Jake or you I trust you guys to drive me. That's a terrible thing to say but that's the reality of it. I very rarely if I'm going somewhere in a group of friends I'm always probably going to say can I drive because I want to be able to leave when I want to leave but I also just some people drive and scares me but anyways, um, lots I get down there and I'm trying to drive.

23:06.16 Ashley Living.

23:17.11 tduval18 And trying to find parking and if you have been to fells before um, it's not fun. It's not fun. Their parking socks. It's cobblestone streets like it's just it's a hard time So I'm trying to find parking and we cannot find parking and.

23:23.70 Ashley It's not you.

23:33.57 tduval18 Like Ashley's texting me and she's like there's a spot read out front and I'm like what are you talking about? No, there's not and so she calls me and she's like so and I'm like what because at this point I am sweating I am anxious I cannot figure out where like I cannot find parking. It's like I'm just stressed and she's like so there's different ones. And she knows me well enough that she was like you're not coming now and I was like correct like she knows well Eric our our mutual friend was like calls and he's like just tell her and I was like no like I am now like I've been stressed out that this was just not a good idea for me.

24:08.60 Ashley Oh right? because he called Jake and I already knew I'm like I fucking no and the reason why? Okay so we're sitting there with no so we were sitting there and I'm like she's saying. But.

24:10.93 tduval18 Like it was not a good idea. He did call jake and Jake was like yeah like port Jake because I'm like where the fuck is this spot I could hear you and I could hear you in the background you were like he's not coming.

24:27.28 Ashley No parking and then I don't know who said it is either Kevin or Rose Eric 1 of them was like well what location did you tell did you tell them and I'm like what and then that's when I realized oh my god I never told her what look I just this is.

24:37.69 tduval18 Um.

24:44.14 Ashley I Don't know it was It was crazy and then I'm like fuck.

24:45.81 tduval18 Show Ashley knows this about me though I will not come like if I can't park I don't give a fuck if I've driven there if I can't find a parking spot and I've now I'm overwhelmed with finding one I will just leave and be good. So note to everyone I'm not going somewhere. If I have to struggle for barking. It's just not it. You probably would have that's you, you're a good person. Yes see I'm working on being more like it's fine. But at that point like when I tell you I tried to park in 1 spot and the security guard was like oh no, you can't park here.

25:05.29 Ashley I Probably would have broke to the other location I'm just like right fuck it.

25:23.85 tduval18 So then I tried to find another one couldn't find it like I was sweating I was anxious I was like I'm done now Jake was driving. He would reach be like all right? cool. Let's go and I'm like no we did go to mission barbecue and we have a nice time but like eaten I can't like I I'm stay That's my boundaries now that is my boundaries. I need to be able to park easily where I'm going or I don't need to go that places it for me if I can't park easily I can parallel park not well that that I will sweat at like I will sweat.

25:48.79 Ashley Ah.

25:59.62 tduval18 Trying to parallel park I make Jake get out of the car sometimes like if I'm driving because he just like looks at me a certain way and I can tell he's judging me and I don't need that type of judgment in my life. Even if he says he's not judging I'm like you are and I was like do you want to do it. Do you want to do it.

26:06.69 Ashley Right? I hear ya.

26:15.40 Ashley Right? It's a low key like yeah I kind of want you to.

26:15.80 tduval18 Because I don't want to I hate parallel parking. Yeah I want you do it take it take it over I've done that before I've made ah Sean park my car before when Shannon had lived in the city was good. Not I was like I can't get in this vet spot. It stressed me out it' Shocky about I was like just park my car I was got already the carriage park that.

26:33.70 Ashley Who it be like does sometimes really.

26:39.10 tduval18 I just I'm not a that's why I could not live in the city I could not do it because I cannot have to struggle with parking like both our apartment and here. We had a driveway and I could just easily park and even that I still like Jake will sometimes pull into our driveway and I'm like then you got to back it like I will back into that shit no matter what personal preference personal preference did I tell you.

27:01.28 Ashley Oh.

27:09.42 Ashley No, what are you buying.

27:11.44 tduval18 What I'm buying I I'm buying a tea Kettle I Want to start making more teas and I found this really pretty glass one that you could use on like my stove or other shows and it has a diffuser inside of it. So like you could put the tea leaves in it and it will seep out. Um.

27:29.30 Ashley Because.

27:29.75 tduval18 And I just I want to start making tea because I've realized about myself don't fucking call me a old lady I am a old lady but I've realized most of the time when I have coffee like after my morning coffee if I have a second coffee I'm I'm not you. It's just because I want something Warm. It's not that I actually want a coffee. So I was like I want to buy more teas and start doing like an afternoon tea your judge.

27:52.48 Ashley I Just think I just want to back up a little bit how you were like I bought a tea kettle that works on my stove and other stoves like I don't know I did it is funny how you worded it.

28:01.94 tduval18 Well because I have I have a glass I have one that's I I'm buying one that's glass and my dad was like is that going to like break on your sove I know it. It's supposed to work on there.

28:16.75 Ashley I've seen a lot that's um, a lot of pots and pans be clear too I think it's It's kind of neat. It is a vibe.

28:22.25 tduval18 Yeah I love look I'm kind of mad because we like bought that set and I was like I I kind of like the clear like I'm like that's a vibe I yeah I like I kind of want that I like I don't need that because I have and I set.

28:33.51 Ashley Um, but I think he is I think T is good I Think that's probably better.

28:39.57 tduval18 Yeah, like I had this nice like lemon ginger one the other day. It was a nice little more minute up. So I'm gonna start making teas I'm just yeah now prop up. Well I don't know yet.

28:49.92 Ashley I Love that I Still gonna drink coffee or you like cut it out.

28:58.44 tduval18 Back and forth back and forth I'll probably drink coffee but I might transition fully over to tea. We'll see and like coffee might just be like a special occasion who knows I'm talking a lot of shit for someone who does like her coffee. So.

29:08.86 Ashley Special little treat.

29:15.31 Ashley I You love the taste of coffee.

29:16.47 tduval18 It could be either or that's what it is I like the taste I don't think it gives me any fucking amount of energy like real talk I I don't even think Starbucks or Duncan really give me well I take a back the cold brew at Starbucks when you get it with no water.

29:21.93 Ashley Not the cure eggs but I do.

29:35.84 tduval18 Does give you like a nice little light. Oh but just the culper at Starbucks Duncan's Cul Brus not the same.

29:43.64 Ashley Um, and I think it no but I like Duncan's espresso

29:50.93 tduval18 Oh you do you are an espresso girl.

29:56.20 Ashley I Think there's taste good.

29:59.65 tduval18 I Mean fair at to each their own I think you know.

30:09.22 tduval18 We have to be mindful. Everyone has different tastes. Um, essentially I don't know I just also feel like I'm trying to be more mindful of like what I'm eating and how like I was reading up on how some people.

30:15.32 Ashley And.

30:24.10 Ashley Um.

30:26.20 tduval18 Eat certain foods during different parts of like their cycle of their menstrual cycle to help and I was like I get some mean ass cramps like dead ass is like I'm about to start looking into this to see like what I should be eating what I shouldn't and see if it really does help because sometimes like it's probably me because I'm eating all this junk.

30:30.51 Ashley Um, Bill.

30:45.69 tduval18 But if I could curve that and I also just want to eat better I feel like I wished shout out to down a heart. She didn't feed us terribly but I also feel like junk food was too much of a go in our like lives as kids which respectfully she's a single Momy I get it um single mom who works too hard. Anyways.

30:48.14 Ashley Who.

31:04.77 tduval18 Home. But I just wish that I knew more about like home cooking and like healthier meals because I do have a bad habit now of just being like well it's convenient. So I'll just go get Burger King instead of like being like you know what? let me just take the time and make something and then I'll have leftovers and whatever.

31:14.85 Ashley And here.

31:24.60 Ashley That's true I mean we were like that too. We just had like kind of whatever around the house but like as a kid I don't want to have I don't know like I liked having chips and stuff and whatever.

31:28.89 tduval18 Yeah. Well like I think it's in port right? like my one friends kids they have chips and stuff at like a party so they think it's like a treat but like at home they'll have maybe like the try.

31:39.25 Ashley Probably I'm fat now. But.

31:53.49 tduval18 Triskets which are a little bit healthier or so but I think it's all like in portion right? But I also think as a kid 1 thing I realized my grandmother had did is I learned very young how to cook certain things for myself like I was like 7 or 8 knowing how to make a grilled cheese. And I think that did help me in the long run of kind of realizing that I can make certain things at home like even now sometimes my go to is like oh I'm hungry. Let me make like a gro cheese sandwich or a bologna sandwich and like to sit up and you just knowing how to make like random things. But yeah because i. Jake and I do a really good job of we typically don't have junk food in the house. We have popcorn. We will always have popcorn I probably will make popcorn after this but we don't keep a lot of like junk food like my mother in law said she's like you guys so had and I was like one because when we have it, we eat it like if I know.

32:32.17 Ashley Okay, okay.

32:49.71 tduval18 That I have dark chocolate in I'm going to eat that dark chocolate probably in like one sitting. So it's like add a sight out of mine but 2 we're just not big like if I want junk food I have to like go get it I do wish I had those che its that you had when I was there.

33:08.22 Ashley Here Chee its on I was what to say it was probably spicy because most of the things that like chip wise is always.

33:08.29 tduval18 Um, remember what flavor but they were really good. Yeah when I was there yeah and like a spicy cheese that are some shit is.

33:22.97 Ashley So maybe it's the Tabasco or something I don't fucking know.

33:23.82 tduval18 You are. Ah.

33:31.34 tduval18 What else you got for me what's on your mind.

33:36.42 Ashley Other than being famous like I don't know I'm just so overwhelmed right now and I'm kidding Honestly, nothing's new I'm going to a show like a for real show about myself and that's the only thing that I'm stressed out about. Yeah.

33:50.59 tduval18 Just because you're home by yourself. That's fair.

33:56.22 Ashley Because it's like you and between and between sets just going to stand there.

34:01.61 tduval18 No I think you can make show friends because like you're in the same vicinity of each other.. That's what I did when I went to the one I like accidentally made show friends and I was like okay like cool mainly I probably wouldn't have made show friends if it wasn't for the fact that like I got there and I had a good spot and then I had to pee and I was like fuck like. I Don't want to lose a spot and so this other girl was also going pee and her friends were and I was like can you see my like we were right next to each other and I was like can you guys say man they're like yeah absolutely and so then they became my show friends.

34:32.20 Ashley Oh my god rant oh my god okay, so side note um I was I commented on when Andy's post and he liked my post.

34:43.14 tduval18 Wow You are fucking famous like what is that like you are a famous girl to the famous Girlie Oh have you.

34:46.44 Ashley So no big deal. But yeah, she's a famous girlie.

35:02.74 tduval18 Scene so speaking of Selena Gomez we spoke of her last week and the plot thickens. So obviously the whole fucking world knows that Selena and Justin Bieber dataed for like years young love whatever and badly toxic all that then he got married like three months after to Haley Bieber well Harry Haley Ball ha

35:18.49 Ashley You know.

35:22.66 tduval18 Haley balwin bonos be so I went down a rabbit hole. You'll be proud of me like conspiracy theories about the fact that like Haley constantly tries to shade seina and they try to say that it's not but like this lady pulled up all these receipts of where at some point I was like okay this seems like a lot. Well recently this is the new drama that even Rachel like my cousin you know she don't followship like this is it listening wrong. So like last month or the there was pictures of Sena Gomez the paparazzi got and they were body shaming her. She looked fine in these. Let me just point that out she looked good but they were body shaming her.

35:53.19 Ashley Good.

35:57.37 tduval18 Well, right after this went viral of her beingan body shames Haley some other girl I don't know and kendall put a video saying I'm not saying she deserved it. But god's timing is always right and it seemed like she was shading her so then people were like are you trying to shade Selena getting fat shamed whatever and she deleted it. And was like oh it has nothing to do with Selena and I'm like that's us, but ok, so then this earlier this week Selena posted like making fun of herself in a way that she got her brows laminated and she's like I got them laminated too bat like she posts a picture just're saying like they aren't good. Whatever and Kylie Lomis K Lee over here is going to post her browse and then post a screenshot of her and Haley showing their brows together and tag Haley yes, and I was like why the fuck like 1 it's obvious you're trying to like shade her.

36:46.51 Ashley What.

36:53.99 tduval18 But like what was the point like what was the reason for that and I was like are we really just trying to be like it's giving mean girls like for no fucking reason either and so I was like we ride at dawn like Y'll keep messing with Selena like we ride at dawn guys like she.

36:58.94 Ashley Right? That's fucking petty.

37:07.67 Ashley We ride at dawn.

37:13.24 tduval18 Bother no one like we talked about that last week but I'm also like really, you're a fucking billionaire Kylie you'all have like what is the purpose of this if you want to go down a deep dive like go down the deep dive of like the um, what's your face Haley copying Selena thing because it's actually kind of creepy like it's like super creepy.

37:31.30 Ashley Disally for everybody alone like what the fuck.

37:38.14 tduval18 I Don't know.

37:39.56 Ashley It's annoying. Not not a good time like we don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all and I I think that's a pretty solid, pretty solid.

37:45.17 tduval18 None at all.

37:58.91 tduval18 I Think that's fair, um I will let you know I was really proud of myself I bought could you know times of times a little hard. Um I got these burgers from what do you call it. Audis.

38:04.57 Ashley Oh.

38:14.99 tduval18 And I was like these might not be good, but maybe they will be. They're actually really good. They're cheddar baker cheddar bacon ones and I was like okay here for it. Oh let me tell you the shit that I saw and I have a lot of problems with this so you know Marquis Houston who played Roger in sister sister.

38:19.79 Ashley That does sound bomb.

38:34.27 Ashley Oh yeah.

38:34.75 tduval18 Like go home roger. Yeah okay so it put he posts they post the picture the other day i'mma send this to you and I want you to read this out loud I just sent it to on Instagram to see if you see what I see not the side where it says not the math ain't really math in like above his.

38:40.38 Ashley I Oh god.

38:53.83 tduval18 Picture and all please read it please read this and read it out. Loud make sure you read it out loud. That's the important part.

39:00.74 Ashley I don't understand why I don't have to read it out loud. Oh wait wait two one? Well I mean 10 years together oh my god what the fuck. Yes.

39:03.58 tduval18 Because I want to hear your actual yeah ah ah Hu ah.

39:15.33 tduval18 Yeah, okay, do you see? So for all y'all it posts Marquis Houston 40 with his wife 22 celebrates 3 years of marriage and 10 years together. Someone tell me if that math is math and for you because that means y'all got together. When you were 30 and she was 12.

39:32.63 Ashley No, that's a fake that's fake that can't be that's fake. Yes.

39:44.50 tduval18 Um, look someone posted the comments I was cool with it until I read 10 years together

39:49.16 Ashley No fucking way. That's not real.

39:58.50 Ashley That Adam is that for real.

39:59.20 tduval18 My yeah, that's supposed to be for you I have never been more offended in my life because I like read that and I was like absolutely not like nope.

40:04.85 Ashley Who.

40:15.80 Ashley He.

40:17.10 tduval18 Nope. Oh my God I Just saw the funniest thing it's a tax return $9000 My boss. Why are your late me watch your mouth.

40:29.38 Ashley But watch your fucking mouth.

40:30.83 tduval18 Ah, come correct when you approach me, do you know? what? I did this weekend just gonna tell you because how fun it was um I started and decided to from a beginning watch all the disney princess movies I only got through um. Cinderella and halfway through sleeping beauty because I had a headache so I fell asleep but I was like I haven't watched those like fully watched them since I was a kid and so I was like I want to watch these and like Cinderella I know it was back in the day but some of the facial expressions I'm like.

40:56.00 Ashley True.

41:07.62 tduval18 This is interesting the way they like set this shot up but I was like I really want to rewatch them so that's my new journey I want to watch all of the disney princess movies just because you know your perceptive your perspective changes as you get older because 1 thing that fucked me up is realizing that snow white is like.

41:22.73 Ashley That's true. True. Yeah, that is yeah, we're all like young.

41:26.78 tduval18 14 and the prince is like mad old like what the fuck and why why does Disney and sometimes I think Nickelodeon have this thing while you already talked about it with fucking being orphans I know it's because of Walt Disney but like I never realized how much that really it like they all are at some point of an orphan or a single parent household every single one like I'm trying to think of a story where 1 what? well frozen? Well no, they ended up being orphans never mind take that back.

41:54.80 Ashley Um, is.

41:57.47 Ashley Yeah, but that's like newer age like back then I don't even think there is one with both parents.

42:02.27 tduval18 What it's still, but it even still let me see hold on you. You talk about something while I look this up because I want to know like what who has who has both parents.

42:14.92 Ashley In a Disney Princess movie.

42:18.94 tduval18 Both in a Disney movie at that.

42:20.85 Ashley I Mean true.

42:24.44 tduval18 The proud family that's a show but they had a movie. Oh it says every disney princess who isn't an orphan so look we all got beef with this. We all got he figured out. Okay, so let's look wise Aurora in sleeping beauty that is.

42:27.86 Ashley Does that count.

42:34.28 Ashley Okay.

42:43.60 tduval18 True. She's the third princess that is true. She has both of her parents. But yeah, her parents the king and Queen Leah spent years without her though because of Miss Maleiccent but no she does she does have both parents so okay, move on. Oh she died.

42:48.90 Ashley Sleeping beauty.

42:55.65 Ashley I have okay.

43:02.67 tduval18 Is ok repunsel all right mirror and brave. That's a new one though, but fair mowanna. Oh yeah, Mawaana does it. You know what? That's why I like Milwaana I Love Mowaana That's such a cute movie. Um, and that's it.

43:11.90 Ashley Is.

43:19.88 Ashley Wow.

43:23.64 tduval18 But that's it just them. Um, but yeah, it just makes me sad. Could you realize it's you like damn like Bambi that shit fuck me no I think we've talked about this before by what is it Um. What is the movie land before time that movie's traumatizing like really sad. Yeah and you don't realize it until you're an adult where you're like wow what the fuck.

43:49.42 Ashley Most of them are. Like what the funny that shit does look he fuck you up though.

43:59.33 tduval18 You owe me a coke right? like watching her as a dog and like Wow like is sad as shit I mean I guess it's a good way to like get kids to see different points of expressing their feelings too.

44:12.27 Ashley I was no I was just about to say like you can relate because most kids even me growing up like us growing up like it was like super rare if you had a friend that had both parents.

44:27.51 tduval18 Yes, and they lived in the household like I'm trying to think of our friends like current friends Jessica Brent sierra Dave now like Dave.

44:32.39 Ashley Um I know Jessica and Brent.

44:39.48 Ashley Oh.

44:45.14 tduval18 Um, I think that's it up so anyone else? Oh um, Matt but his parents were toxic and should have been divorced but Matt that death probably and the other Matt too actually.

44:56.40 Ashley Yeah.

45:03.79 tduval18 Also probably should have been divorced. Um, but yeah I don't think we have anyone else like I didn't have both parents because everyone whos like my dad. My step dad is my dad but that wasn't until I was what eighth grade so majority of time. No like did anyone I think. All had like 1 parent household like it was it was strange when you had both.

45:23.50 Ashley No, that's really yeah and that's crazy like it's strange to have both I Those were the only two I can think of like growing up I don't need.

45:33.96 tduval18 Yeah, like just as parents were good. They they were really, they were good parents too like I I love her parents Jessica's but I forgot like I feel like there just wasn't common.

45:43.56 Ashley Who oh right? Yeah, super cute.

45:53.65 tduval18 And I think it's even less common now and I mean I think it's a good thing that people not well. It's not a good thing but I think it's a good thing that people are more aware of like we don't have to say together for the kids and be a toxic relationship and that families can be in all different shapes and sizes and different ways. Um, because I was saying that to layla the one day she was just telling me.

46:00.95 Ashley They hear.

46:13.20 tduval18 About she's like well this boy he has his moms are gay and I was like is there anything wrong with that and she's like no and I was like well you know everyone's family is going to be different I said not everyone has their their aunts so close to them like how me and you are either I was like or some people are being raised by their aunts and like give it. But it's just interesting because I feel like our newer generation is so much more open like they're so like there's like cool you got 2 moms sometimes I wish I had 2 moms and not a dad or something like they're just way more open than I think ever which is a good thing. Especially since they have lived their lives on social media.

46:52.88 Ashley That's true.

46:53.85 tduval18 I am hungry and I don't know what I want and just for you guys all to know like I Just don't know what I want like you know how sometimes you're hungry, but you don't have like an actual like.

47:03.36 Ashley I mean.

47:09.56 tduval18 Sometimes you're like oh I'm hungry I Want Chinese food like I have there's I can't think of anything that I want I'm just hungry.

47:14.11 Ashley I know Kevin's making some breakfast sandwiches and.

47:17.24 tduval18 You Kevin makes good ass food I was actually thinking about that the other day I was like I want to get ste ums and make them the way Kevin did with the eggs when I was there so I was good shit and I would never thought to put that together but I was like that solid. What else we got this week is it technically is this the last episode of February oh it is so I I have to pick a book. Oh shit.

47:36.54 Ashley Ah.

47:46.50 Ashley Pick a book pick a book pick a book. Oh my God I got a p.

47:52.90 tduval18 Um, just.

47:56.59 tduval18 Actually not I'm going to pick the book that I just read for my book club. It's called once and once in the future witches. It's a story about witches in Salem well New Salem where after they got run out from old Salem and got burned at the stake. And it was really interesting because the way that they did the perspective was like which and witching wasn't necessarily like magic sometimes sometimes it was you have home remedies to secure a burn or things like that and how people prosecuted them which is to the truth to as being witches and it was it was.

48:31.14 Ashley Are.

48:32.56 tduval18 Ah, really solid book like I recommend anyone read it because I was sitting there I'm like I and they like used that most nursery rhymes or most like hums or something have like a spell in them and it was a really cool way of like like showing that back then what women got prosecuted for.

48:46.75 Ashley Crazy. It's crazy how like anti sananic they were like if you did anything it was like Nope you're fucking witch are crazy.

48:56.42 tduval18 Yeah, that's that's true. Okay, what is your song of the week

49:03.47 Ashley Well obviously we're gonna go with crown the empire dogma that just released today and their their whole album gets released April Twenty Eighth so everybody be on the lookout for the whole album because I know I'm excited.

49:10.77 tduval18 Respectfully.

49:19.63 tduval18 Has the did dogma just come out or has it been out because I thought you picked that as a song like a few months ago but maybe okay, probably that sounds familiar. Um I'm gonna go with this.

49:23.90 Ashley no no I just came out today now I probably pricked like immortalized or something that's that he just dropped it today at 8 a m.

49:37.40 tduval18 Artist called Brayden Bals twenty miss calls I actually found him so this is really cool. There's this creator called Elise Myers on ticktok that I follow and if anyone follows her. She's great. She do edit one of his songs and did harmonies with it which then made me go on his page and like I can't wait. They're actually going to release the song and it's great.

49:49.61 Ashley M.

49:56.36 tduval18 Um, but I went on his page and like he's a songwriter and artist. So then I start listening to his music and like you know how you we were talking with Pat about how you like a good like sad song but like kind of melancholy like his music's like that and it's so good and so like shout out to him again. Support local artists support.

50:04.87 Ashley Yeah, yeah. Okay, okay.

50:14.63 tduval18 Singer songwriters. He writes all of his stuff. But with that we will be back next week please like follow share comment tell us what you want to hear what you want us to talk about I think we want to do an episode about all of the stuff with Gabby Gabby Petito I think we talked about that before um. And there's been more updates in it with like her parents and his parents and stuff and they're all and then also I don't know and Ashley you might want to look this up I want to talk about the idaho 4 case that has been something that is crazy as fuck to me as well as the case where the mom who had postpartum depression and killed all 3 of her kids. Um, those are just some ones I want us to cover and kind of shed light on as well. Especially the postpartum 1 by definitely going to be sharing some more and then trying to be keeping up with current news and anything and if you want to hear more from us. Just let us know.

50:54.69 Ashley The her.

51:13.81 tduval18 And with that bye.

51:16.90 Ashley Being.