how to fill your own cup & not pour into the wrong ones

You’re a 10 gallon lover trying to love a pint capacity lover! You want your cup to be so full that you don’t waste time pouring into people who don’t deserve it. It’s so important that your own cup is full before seeking a relationship or new friendly, you shouldn’t have to depend on anyone else to fill your cup! Once you’ve looked after your own cup, you’ll then realise that you may be pouring into the wrong people, and you might rethink who you want to keep around you. Protect your full cup!