00:05.64 tduval18 2023 it really has it's been kind of crazy and are you eating I heard your fork.

00:08.25 Ashley We are back so long. It's been forever.

00:17.63 Ashley Sure am.

00:24.91 tduval18 I was like what's that noise. What are you eating? What are you? What are you eating.

00:25.10 Ashley Ah, oh I'm fine great. It's like ah um, like a cucumber roll but in a bowl so it was just rice chopped up cucumber and some seaweed.

00:42.40 tduval18 I'm here for that I'm here for that. So what's been up. It's been. We have not recorded in a very very long time. So many things have happened um Prince Harry's new book came out I'm halfway through it I have a lot of thoughts.

00:54.23 Ashley On that old new book I saw you posted it.

00:58.69 tduval18 Yeah, he wrote a book from his perspective about his life. Yeah yeah, like from the time his mother died and all like right now I'm in his military time and he wrote it the way of like his internal monologue.

01:00.62 Ashley Wow Like even as a kid like growing up.

01:11.70 Ashley Yeah, it was something military. Do you have to join the military or is that like Egypt or some shit that.

01:21.22 tduval18 Um, that's South Korea but um, no, but almost every british royal family member has been in the military at different times but Harry is the only one who actively had went to Afghanistan twice. Um the british.

01:35.81 Ashley Down.

01:39.50 tduval18 The british press actually ruined it the first and the second time because they had said he was there and so then the taliban were actively trying to kill him so he had to leave like both times they blew it up. Um, second time he was there. There was a contract with the press that he would do an interview with them when he.

01:50.21 Ashley Are.

01:58.20 tduval18 Before he left and when he returned as long as while he was on duty they didn't say anything while Australia wasn't held to that same standards and they leaked it and then it got into America press and then it went all over. Um so he had to get pulled. But yeah you all of them. Um. Williams and Air Force Rescue pilot so like to go and search and find people that have been injured um charles was a pilot like ah like they all have been in different branches of the military. Yeah.

02:28.82 Ashley Yeah, that's insane people suck.

02:34.29 tduval18 And it was like obviously it was a very big security risk for not only him but others like his whole squad so he left. But yeah, um, it's really interesting the way it's written. It's written as it's at his internal monologue.

02:44.50 Ashley Technical problem.

02:48.58 tduval18 So it's how like you would talk through stuff so sometimes it will jump from 1 thing to another but it's very it makes sense because it's he's writing it as he would be thinking it? Um, it's it's very interesting but the biggest thing that I've taken away so far is the. The british royal family and this may be the same for other royal families like the swedish and danish. But they don't really have as much control over what they would like to do um, it's it's really the institute says like you can do this. You can't do this but also because they were in such a big spotlight normal as sibling rivalry shit. Harry takes as like oh Williams just jealous of me instead of like realizing that you guys are siblings. Of course you're going to and you're only like 2 years apart. Of course you guys are going to compete about stuff and be jealous like I I think it's a very interesting take to me because some things I'm like dude that's just like that's a typical Tuesday with having a sister like so.

03:42.41 Ashley Let's create here.

03:44.11 tduval18 Yeah, it's interesting I probably after we finish recording I'll probably finish it. Um, but it's definitely something and him and Megan had a Netflix documentary that came out in december.

03:49.50 Ashley Was.

03:55.87 Ashley I think I seen that like I didn't see it but like I seen it advertised people were talking about it. Um.

04:01.71 tduval18 It's it's something I have some thoughts on that too have a lot of thoughts on that. Um I just think and and this is the way I I think the british press did do Megan and Harry extremely dirty especially Megan.

04:17.62 tduval18 But I also feel like we're getting one side of the story and if you're the only victim in the entire story and you're not taking any accountability in it then there's probably some things that are left out of this story.

04:31.40 Ashley Ooh scandalous.

04:31.99 tduval18 And that's just my opinion in general like if someone is telling you a story and they are always just telling you as they're the victim of the story. No matter what happens and it's multiple people and it's multiple times you're the victim to me. There's more to it because obviously there the saying goes it's like. Their truth their truth and then somewhere in the middle is the actual truth and so I think at the end of the day their family and there was a lot more that went on with the family but the british press made it what it was and that's one of the biggest things I've taken from Harry's book is like the british press is terrible. Um, he talked about how he got to see the.

05:09.83 Ashley E O god.

05:10.20 tduval18 Crash photos of his mother's crash and he saw all these like yellow lights and he couldn't figure out it was like where's that lighting and then he realized that it was photographers that were taking pictures of her She was laying there dying and those actually like they got those all of the syndicates that had them and those have never been published.

05:19.92 Ashley What in the actual fuck.

05:29.96 tduval18 Because they were going to publish them that was going to be published the next day of just like her in the car dying instead of helping her they're doing flash and like taking pictures of it.

05:40.42 Ashley My God people That's how awful.

05:44.90 tduval18 I mean I think we've talked about that before of how like we couldn't be famous because it's like every little thing you do is under a microscope.

05:52.16 Ashley Yeah, that's a no for me.

05:59.70 tduval18 Um, Jennifer Coolidge who plays like Stifler's mom she won a what was it last night um golden globe for her pateral and um white lotus.

05:59.71 Ashley Um, it's too much.

06:03.14 Ashley Oh her aha. Oh he.

06:14.33 tduval18 And I just thought that was really exciting for her and she had talked about how she thought like she was never going to make it big or have any like big roles and but she just kept on so I was like that was exciting Angela Bassett won for Queen Romanda from waconda forever black panther and I was like that is. That was it for me like that was ah she did such a good job in that movie which is on Disney plus on February first I will be watching that I won't be watching that again like I almost went back to the movies. There's only been 2 movies in the last whatever years that I would want to go back to the movies and see and it was spider man.

06:37.51 Ashley Oh I Love it.

06:50.29 tduval18 No way home and black panther like ten I Ten would go back to see them in the movies pay the money all of it extra large pop horn. It was amazing. You didn't go see it. Oh you should see it. It's very good.

06:57.83 Ashley Um, I heard a lot of good things about about Spiderman no.

07:07.34 tduval18 It's on Amazon you can buy it for like three ninety nine I thought about buying the actual bundle of all 3 movies because that's not on Disney because that's under Sony um, so it's like weird contract thing and I I genuinely like watching that trilogy. So I think I'm going to buy it because it's like thirty bucks for all 3 movies and I can watch it whenever I want.

07:07.91 Ashley Will.

07:25.47 Ashley That's decent I feel like that's a good price.

07:27.17 tduval18 Yeah I I mean I feel like at this point I'm like streamed out like I have so many streaming services to the point where like the other day I was like I have nothing to watch and like I think I was just overwhelmed like I had too many choices because I I sometimes take like a break in between with Gray's anatomy.

07:34.92 Ashley Um, if I go right.

07:46.80 tduval18 Um I did start that show Ginny in Georgia on Netflix you know you haven't seen that like the little thing. Oh it's really popular. It's like number 2 and um Netflix right now. It's.

07:52.60 Ashley Ginny in Georgia I've never even heard of it. Wow.

08:02.74 tduval18 At first I thought I was going to hate it because I've seen some like cringy posts of it. Um, but it's actually kind of relatable I compare it to Gilmore girls but darker. Um, so there's this mom Georgia this white woman with her biracial daughter Virginia who gets called Jenny who she had at 15 um, and it it goes about like their troubles and it's so interesting to see they take on a lot of like Ginny has and I don't want to ruin up a Jenny has um some self harm and some issues with identity which obviously may being biracial I fully get but like there's. You also she's so fucking annoying I you know how teenagers are annoying like we were annoying. We thought we knew everything we thought we had all the answers she plays it so well that sometimes I'm like oh my god you get all my fucking nerves. But then I'm like that is a teenager like that's that's how we were and then bitch.

08:44.93 Ashley Yes.

09:00.96 tduval18 Tell me the fuck Why she went in this phase of like she dyed her hair with like stripes of blue and was wearing dark eyeliner and she's at her work and her boss who if I showed you a picture of him he used to be in um, de grassssi like the later seasons but her boss she was like what do you think and he was like.

09:14.50 Ashley Aha.

09:18.84 tduval18 Very hot topic of you and then he walked away and her another girl were like what's hot topic and I was like oh my God I'm that I'm that old I'm that old that that saying I understand that saying but they don't ok.

09:22.34 Ashley Um, what.

09:32.80 Ashley That's insane. Oh yeah, because like that ain't like it's not the same as like it used to be that's.

09:34.62 tduval18 No, that's not how like back back in our day and then it really fucked me up because like Georgia is 30 and the show which is the mom and it's literally like she makes references to stuff that was our teenage years like I think they did a very good job of. Showing like oh she was a teenager in this timeline and she's 30 and like yeah it just messed me up though I was like hot topic.

09:59.66 Ashley Oh cute that actually sounds neat I think I would watch it.

10:04.66 tduval18 I think it would like it it. It has some funny stuff to it but it is a little bit more serious um than what you would probably but it it's I think it was cute like I surprised I'm almost finished it. There's 2 seasons and I have like 2 more episodes of the second season and I'm like okay I like it i.

10:07.27 Ashley Me.

10:22.63 tduval18 The one character I can't stand but she's just like she's a cheats teenager. That's what I have to like I'm like she is a teenager but I'm like she annoys me really bad. Actually.

10:31.11 Ashley I want to see it that sounds cool. You know what show I'm excited to see that 90 show is coming out the night it comes out the nineteenth and it's really cool too because like a lot like all of the not all of them but like the original people.

10:36.36 tduval18 I was going to say when is that that's like soon.

10:49.60 tduval18 Threat for the one that's going to jail sorry Danny Masterson he's like on in on trial I go say I know like that sad for him. He's the way.

10:50.31 Ashley Are gonna be in it which is who what I know but okay I know sad honestly though I like him I like him as an actor I liked him in that 70 show it. It does suck that he's not going to be in the show because he's funny.

11:12.38 tduval18 Now I mean Kitty looks exactly the same and that's like tripping me the fuck out.

11:19.41 Ashley Know she hell. Ah, she's nana she's hele nana like the way she does she acts and like does certain things like she just so reminds me of every me and Kevin walked that 7 show it's it's like yeah that is her.

11:26.14 tduval18 Um, she is Nano that is.

11:32.60 tduval18 Yeah, that is Jenny out here in these streets that's fucking hilarious think about that that is nano I actually you would have been surprised I watched that the other day when I was on my I was overwhelmed I put on the first episode of that 70 show. It didn't last very long I started reading.

11:50.33 Ashley Um, a.

11:52.59 tduval18 But I'm on my fourth book in 2023 and Rachel was you know, get on me. She's like that's fucking ridiculous and I was like not really but big. It is guess what because you'll understand this. So remember how my mom loves the avit brothers right? like that's that's her band. She'd always be like the avip brothers.

11:59.37 Ashley I think it's better than watching Tv.

12:09.90 Ashley Right.

12:12.46 tduval18 Um, so the one of the books that I read the author dedicated the book to the Avi Brothers and then every chapter had lyrics from one of other songs I texted my mom like so hears that it's because I like that's wild.

12:18.73 Ashley No well.

12:27.40 Ashley What did your mom say did she love it.

12:30.59 tduval18 How do you know she went on her whole story about when she met them and like it was the whole thing and then I had to like decipher it a little bit because my mom if I haven't talked about this before does talk to text and it's like she's talking to the phone so she doesn't realize it doesn't pick up every thing that she says so sometimes I just have to decipher what she's talking about.

12:48.18 Ashley Yeah, your a lot of people be using that I don't ever give it.

12:49.82 tduval18 Fun time. So does me either the you want to know the only time I use it if I'm not sure how to spell a word like if I'm unsure I'll hit the little button and then like say it so it will spell it out but anything else like I I like to type.

13:04.77 Ashley I like the clue either that or like people do like the voice memos I'm not a voice manager the Jackie uses it all the time. Yeah is you know what.

13:06.45 tduval18 Like I like to say you know I messaged. Yeah I feel like famous people do that? Yeah, no Jackie Oh yeah.

13:22.14 Ashley A lot of it's young like the younger generation uses it a lot like what.

13:25.20 tduval18 The only thing the only thing I think is probably good with that is it expires after a certain amount of time So like can't catch what I said but like I'm out here like I'll let you I will screenshot with the fuck I said and resend it to you but I guess that's.

13:38.52 Ashley My honey.

13:42.55 tduval18 That's a positive note.

13:43.35 Ashley I mean I guess but.

13:45.67 tduval18 I Don't know I just I also feel like I can't get my thoughts together unless I type them out like saying them doesn't do the same thing as me like typing them out if that makes up.

13:54.80 Ashley No no I like to do I'd rather do that because I but you can like read it and then it's like you know what actually don't want to say that and then you can just like delete it or retype it or whatever the fuck like you have a second chance.

14:08.40 tduval18 Yeah I just I I like it I don't know maybe it's just me what you are like me so we we are one in the same. How was your Christmas and New year's

14:23.80 Ashley Christmas was tight when two I went toanas and it was just my grandparents me and Kevin we just chilled had some den so it was a cool day. New New Year's um

14:40.43 tduval18 Ah, oh yeah, oh yeah, yeah, you you were out here posting with other people like let me I was offended I woke up like wow.

14:40.73 Ashley That was cool. What. Oh My God I know dude when I get drunk I'm just like let's take pictures like.

14:57.42 tduval18 Wow Offend it.

14:57.66 Ashley But to be there I haven't talked to them since but it was cool like I always get nervous I going to like because so we went to Kevin's okay so follow along.

15:03.43 tduval18 Fair yeah.

15:12.91 tduval18 So follow the about and grow.

15:16.90 Ashley Kevin's friend friend friend was having a birthday party. It was like a birthday party slash new year's party so he had he was invited and then he had asked if we could come and she was like yeah and I was It's always. Nerveracking going into someone's house. You've never been to with people. You've never met and it's like you don't know how people are going to act or people gonna like be nice to you are they're gonna be rude to you but no is really cool like everybody was really nice. We were playing games like flip cup and all that stuff.

15:37.80 tduval18 Count. Yep yep, and.

15:52.86 Ashley So I had a really good time but I was just nervous at first but that was cool.

15:56.90 tduval18 But no dude I was watching something where they they played flip cup but instead they did it with shots and the little mini red solo cups. So like you had to drink your.

16:06.87 Ashley Oh hell no.

16:09.78 tduval18 Rock a lie I was like I had to remember I'm 30 because at first I was like yo I would play the shit out of that and then I started thinking about as no, that's not a good idea. That's not a good idea I don't wake up the same way right? You know like I don't wake up the same way like it's a struggle playing flip cup and being like Google go so like.

16:18.94 Ashley Um, maybe at like maybe at like 18

16:25.78 Ashley Then I don't even have the same tolerance I did like back in the day like I could probably handle taking shots I've never have been a shot girl ever I don't take shots but alcohol like alcohol tolerance wise I could have handled a lot better.

16:29.40 tduval18 But not.

16:36.95 tduval18 Except for when you're drunk.

16:44.38 Ashley Now if I were to do that I probably I think I would be like a 3 shot limit and I'd be like yo I'm done.

16:49.96 tduval18 Right? I'm I'm gonna be out for the next 2 to 3 business days to recover. Thank you Ah see you next week. Um, yeah I Just thought that was cool though. But I was like yeah I can't do that and that's another thing that that show covers is like. They all have this friends basement where they all hang out and smoke and drink and I'm like dude everyone had the basement that 70 show like we had friends that like we would hang out in their basement and like that was just it's that I was like that's a very teenage thing you know I think it like balances. That's what.

17:09.44 Ashley Oh yeah, the funny.

17:16.70 Ashley I Love a good hang.

17:22.91 tduval18 Think I wish Euphoria would do more is they don't hang out on anyone's basement. Really.

17:24.82 Ashley Well, it's in California in it or nowhere is it based out of.

17:28.73 tduval18 No, you're right? it is in California that is a very good point. Well up. Yeah that's good point. That's good point. Yeah, it's California they do hang out in eliliot's room. So yeah, yeah, well Eliliot's a little ho but it's meant he's the one that I said reminded me of Rudy like he looks like Rudy.

17:38.82 Ashley Um, but that is where it is telling.

17:42.42 Ashley Okay, there you go that the kick its current.

17:51.41 Ashley Which one's Elliott. Oh yes, laugh my ass off. Ah.

17:57.80 tduval18 And he's a hoe um like shout out to Rudy ah home I don't know we should message him does anyone have his number if you listen to this Rudy message us. Um.

18:02.82 Ashley I Wonder what he's doing I I first tell them.

18:14.40 tduval18 But yeah I think that was good I've been doing pretty much nothing. We did Christmas early. Well we did Christmas at my mother in law's ah like two weeks before Christmas so that everyone had their time and then we. Went to see my father in law on Christmas but we and Jake really just had like a really chill day we like watch movies and stuff and then obviously everyone obviously I don't know why I said it with that Jake's birthdays new year's eve so we had a party for him. Um, we played circle of death or Kings as some people call it. And Jake was hung over for like two days because my boy was out here with Eric drinking fucking bourbon and then was drinking beer and of course if you play circle of death with someone and it's their birthday and it's like who's your date. You're gonna pick them and if you're like when you hit you, you pick someone to drink everyone picked jake.

18:55.26 Ashley Yeah I.

19:06.96 tduval18 So we played on my birthday I was who say we made all my birthday but that was save time. Yeah yeah, well the last time I played it was my birthday and then we played it there? Um, but it was it was a good time. Jake had a really good time which was all that mattered.

19:06.99 Ashley I haven't played that since your birthday party. Yeah yes, that was last time I played that.

19:26.70 tduval18 Um I got up the next day on the first. So like I was very cognizant of like drinking water I wanted to be like buzzed but not fucked up because I knew one I had shit I wanted to do the next day and two I just didn't want to be him over. It's like a whole fucking thing now to be hung over and I just don't have it so I got up on the first and I took.

19:41.00 Ashley Um.

19:45.92 tduval18 All of our Christmas decorations down like swept vacuumed up took Austin home because he stayed the night and then went grocery shopping and like had all my stuff and like the second was my day like I just got to fucking chill and have this like nice easy going time.

20:00.51 Ashley Bit value. Yeah.

20:03.45 tduval18 Because everything was back like my couches were back the way that they should be like it was just that to me is the best way to start a new year's like I know they say you're not supposed to wash a new laundry or like clean on New Year's or a new year's day it's something I saw where it's like you should.

20:14.58 Ashley Why I always you only clean all this what that's a weird but like what's the like the science I get oh look like.

20:20.88 tduval18 Only clean on the second now on the first here I'll look for oh look for it but I will 100% do that again and again. Oh you i.

20:36.51 Ashley I got fucked up and I was hung over so I didn't do shit well I will I was hung over I can tell about like 3 what I remember we did something that day I don't remember what we did but we had to do something.

20:40.47 tduval18 2

20:55.47 Ashley It was so long ago like I Just don't remember.

21:00.21 tduval18 So it's it's supposedly bad luck to wash laundry on New Year's day it can ruin your whole year according to superstitions found in c cultures around on a washing clothes on New Year's could mean washing loved ones away in the process. Um, yeah, yeah.

21:11.77 Ashley Yo superstitions are fucking insane.

21:17.69 tduval18 And that's in like China um Belgium Peru what's like it's like a lot of places that do that which which I didn't wash any clothes that day I just cleaned up my house. So.

21:21.65 Ashley You know who has.

21:28.20 Ashley I Don't remember a you know it's so weird like I don't remember what I did that day like I know I was hungover but I wasn't like hungover all day. Maybe.

21:42.70 tduval18 Ah I don't remember I don't even remember talking to you that day. So I I couldn't tell you either.

21:50.99 Ashley I don't even know how to think about it. You know who has fucking um mexicans have hella New Year's traditions like it's really honestly insane like so like the which one.

21:59.14 tduval18 no no I tried to do one I tried to do the one and it's hard. The 12 grapes I didn't do it one like. At midnight. But I was prepping to do it at midnight and then I kind of forgot but like that 12 grape one like I was real determined that I was like I'm going to eat these 12 grapes in 60 seconds it's not easy shout out to anyone who does that and eat those groups in 12 seconds

22:22.43 Ashley I remember I did that so Maria came over once her it was her her niece and her mom had came over and her mom brought like a big ass bag of grapes and we did that and then last year not last year I came over the year before that. But last year when I went to lulu's house. They I don't remember something with Pennies. They had something to do with some type of Pennies where you do. I don't fucking remember I was already trashed at that point but I know one of them was like you have to take your purse and during the countdown or like within the last minute you just like go in and out of the front door like you run in and out with your purse. It's supposed to be good for something.

23:09.35 tduval18 Yeah.

23:15.94 tduval18 Yeah, I'm just not I don't know we talked we talked about that Google we talked about that at work today like about how different religious.

23:18.90 Ashley And then I don't know what the party thing was.

23:30.91 tduval18 Like different religions and how people have different things and you should be mindful of it which is true but then at the end they were like anything we should else add to this presentation I was like I think everyone should also be mindful of people who aren't religious so like make sure you're not overstepping their boundary by forcing something of a religion onto them. Um, but some I feel like I know everyone's like oh America we have Christmas and we have fourth of July but I honestly feel like the more I hear about other cultures holidays and like celebrations that they do I'm like I want to be in that. Like that sounds like a good like that's cool as shit and like the there's always like these real good deep meanings behind I'm not saying the fourth of July is and a good deep meaning like yes we got our independence whatever but I feel like all of our holidays are just like let's drink who think.

24:23.60 Ashley I'm fucking down for that. But no, that's how most of it is anyway like you you eat a lot of food and you drink a lot That's the I mean like that's a holiday.

24:32.20 tduval18 Um I don't know I feel like it shouldn't be all about drinking as I come off of saying like Jake got super drunk but that was his birthday but like I don't know the older I get I'm like I want to do shit where I don't have to drink like 1 thing I like. With me and you is like we could have a day where we're like yeah we're gonna dayd drink. But then we could have a day wherere like we're just gonna watch fucking the greatest british baking show and talk shit of how we can't make this and then just like we don't have to drink to do it like we just hang out because someone had posted it and I sent it to Jackie because I feel like this would be a great trip for her. It was like.

24:53.64 Ashley I Love talk most rent.

25:06.44 tduval18 How come we don't go on vacations with our friends to cabins and just read for the entire weekend and it was like bro how fucking and Jackie was like I'm in and I'm like fuck it same like go run a cabin for a long weekend and just read books we can sit in the same room and read books or we could sit in opposite rooms. But it's just nice like I don't know.

25:24.44 Ashley You know.

25:26.29 tduval18 Um, more about like chill things.

25:29.17 Ashley I would go but I would I like drinking in the cabin something about the vibe. It just sets it and you just are down to have a good time.

25:38.85 tduval18 I Mean yes, but also the vibe of a good book.

25:43.84 Ashley Oh so one of the traditions is fireworks that makes sense because fireworks go off like a bitch like they like and there's always all these things everywhere like when you're rain now you get like notifications for ring and stuff like that.

25:49.50 tduval18 Yeah I fucking Hate fireworks.

26:02.96 Ashley About like keeping your dogs inside because they get scared and there's a lot of dogs that get lost on New Year's because of all the fireworks and get scared but that's a tradition was to frighten evil spirits away and welcome good luck.

26:14.13 tduval18 I mean I'm old because I also hate I hate the fuck out of fireworks now I think no I take that back I like fireworks all I like the fucking holiday right? like I learned this year in our new home. The people around here decide 5 business days before the holiday and 5 business days after the holiday we are going to let off fireworks and dead s it annoys the living shit out of me like I'm like bro I could understand like maybe the day before the holiday and the day after.

26:36.31 Ashley You are not wrong. You are not wrong.

26:50.13 tduval18 Like I I am not that much of an evil bitch like those three days but like why is it 5 business days before and but no knock that shit off knock it off.

26:57.13 Ashley Who No I Totally agree that shit really does go off for the longest.

27:07.23 tduval18 Honestly I've realized the older I get the more I just am a little 80 year old woman.

27:21.40 Ashley I Hear you it's just the age. Not my point.

27:23.38 tduval18 Like it's just too much like I just and this this goes into my like discussion of we are gonna do our word of the year when we talked about it and like this year my word of the year is peace like I just want shit to be peaceful.

27:37.48 Ashley No I won't end.

27:42.39 tduval18 If You have drama with me. You have drama with yourself because I'm not involving myself in it like anything that brings me out of my piece I'm just not doing it like I want to have a peaceful year and that means if people flow in and out of my life. You all flow in and now my life I'm not sitting here to hold you to it. Just I'm living my life I'm also doing a no spend challenge but that's going somewhere right now.

28:08.41 Ashley And it's fine. You know you're you've done great so far.

28:12.27 tduval18 Well, my goal was to do 15 no spend days this month I three so that's good, but it also when I do spend it makes me see how many times like I buy food and then also spend on food so I'm like how to get better.

28:19.11 Ashley I Love that.

28:27.50 Ashley Um, evening.

28:31.29 tduval18 Um I need to buy some speaking of buying shit I need to buy some new highlighters to go with this but definitely helpful. Um, if you guys haven't seen it someone put it on Tiktok where like you use your calendar. And you put like days that are no spend. You can highlight the whole day and then you have 1 color of a highlighter for things that are a want that you spent on and then the other for a need so like my duncan donuts that was a want because a need a want because my ass has a keurig and I buy shit for my keurig.

28:57.40 Ashley 1 moment.

28:59.20 tduval18 Every fucking time I go to the grocery store So I need to use it and I have a fucking cold Bur machine I probably will start using that again soon.

29:08.30 Ashley I Want to get a cold brew machine.

29:11.51 tduval18 I Love mine.

29:16.92 Ashley I Need to get one to try it.

29:18.77 tduval18 Oh and I got a derm appointment remember I think I was talking to you about this like offline I wanted to go got a derm appointment I'll text you the des. But yeah I'm excited I think you know we're getting older make sure we're.

29:23.89 Ashley Oh you did? yeah.

29:37.23 tduval18 Taking care of our skin. How is Callie shoulder having like crazy ass floods and shit.

29:48.10 Ashley It is I haven't seen it Well okay I guess so and where we were on Ocean Beach that shit got flooded the fuck out I think it's fine I think it's like it's gone down but like it got really badly flooded and then um.

29:55.71 tduval18 Um, it looks so bad I show Jake that.

30:04.85 Ashley Um, Pacific Beach got like our no Pacific Beach Fucking Mission Beach The one it has like um the roller coastaer. So that's the one that has the amusement park. All of that's flooded I'm like I wonder how everything's going to be affected like because that's a wooden as roller coastaster that they have.

30:21.74 tduval18 Yeah, um.

30:21.96 Ashley I don't know if that got touched plus all the games but like everything just got fucked up and then I know Sacramento got it I don't I don't know but I feel like that upper like further up, got it worse. Everybody's getting evacuated like it's so flooded and because of all the floods.

30:33.73 tduval18 Yeah.

30:41.44 Ashley Like there's hella landslides because everything's getting wet with all the mountains and then l a I mean I don't think I like at it like awfully but like when I was in l a and I was trying to come back. It was pouring down rain. It was eight o'clock at night bitch and there were so. Still traffic. It was crazy and it was like some of the roads were really flooded but I just kind of like not good for your car but like I just like booked it and like ran through this deepest puddle because I'm like I need to get the fuck home like I'm not trying to be stranded here because i.

31:00.34 tduval18 Yeah, right like.

31:16.61 Ashley Don't want to be I want to go home.

31:16.76 tduval18 Yeah, it's crazy like people that's I can't get over when people are like oh there is no such thing as global warming or so such thing as climate change out like look at all the shit that we've been dealing with shit's going down.

31:34.73 Ashley For real but it also doesn't help either that there's not good drain system.

31:35.22 tduval18 Shit's going down.

31:40.59 tduval18 Yeah, that that doesn't help oh and Rachel sent me that Lisa Marie Presley like I was his daughter is in the hospital after having a heart attack and you know that's what that man died from.

31:50.12 Ashley Yep, oh my god.

31:59.10 tduval18 Fucking wild.

32:03.40 Ashley That is insane. How old is she.

32:11.10 tduval18 Ah, yeah I don't know actually let me look see if it says it to do to do.

32:15.28 Ashley Did it did it Do do.

32:20.11 tduval18 I Don't know how old she is. But yeah, so that's not good and yeah follow shows.

32:25.71 Ashley Still hereditary. Like I was just trying to see like how old was Elvis when he died.

32:36.70 tduval18 But yeah, like his fifty s I could be completely wrong hold on I'll look it up I thought you were looking it up but I can look it up how old how old was Elvis what he was wow he was.

32:39.57 Ashley I Also don't know.

32:55.00 Ashley Wow Young as book.

32:55.65 tduval18 42 that's so young. Oh not to bring it back. Um to that show but you would have laughed at this.

33:14.18 tduval18 Yeah, freaking um sorry the show they were she was talking about her being like a bad mom and she was like I was 15 having a baby I didn't know.

33:21.65 Ashley 3

33:31.97 tduval18 She's like Mary Kate Ashley didn't teach me that and I was like facts facts because we watched Mary Kate ashley ah Lisa Marie Presley is fifty Four years old.

33:32.90 Ashley VLo pheaant

33:40.69 Ashley Okay, says still like young.

33:45.18 tduval18 Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's for sure. Young, um, yeah, Rachel like sends me updates and stuff harry styles is still a single man. So shoot your shot. Um.

33:48.10 Ashley Damn.

34:01.88 Ashley Ah I will next time I see him. Okay.

34:02.91 tduval18 Shot I think he's in London he's in London right now so you got a wait a bit it but there you go for it now it was cracking up because someone was talking about like them breaking up I was a dayg also I know you're not going to do it but like gray's anatomy. Check it out I'm just saying just check it out.

34:16.91 Ashley You don't know.

34:22.75 tduval18 Even though now because you said Meredith has a weird mouth I can't stop looking at her weird mouth. Um, but it that's that's the main character but you were calling it out but I'm I'm in season 12 now you know, triing along by the end of this year I think I'll be caught up to where they're currently at.

34:27.19 Ashley I Hardly remember who that was.

34:34.81 Ashley Wow, you're in there. That's cute. You're getting there I mean that's a lot of seasons.

34:43.25 tduval18 Possibly I don't know. Maybe it is a lot of seasons that it gets overwhelming sometimes and it's a fucking emotional show. So sometimes I'd be like that's fucked up man I like I need up in it I mean a minute like they killed Derek which I knew was gonna happen. But I didn't know how like it was gonna hit me up. Um. It was really fucking sad like I'm back whole lie I cried I didn't think I was going to cry because like he I've been like I don't understand why everyone loves Derek so much and then it I was like okay fuck me up fuck me up.

35:11.56 Ashley Fuck me up Dirk oh you know you got engaged fucking Ryan Scott Graham from state champs. It is super cute.

35:16.52 tduval18 Um I was like who oh okay Q.

35:26.89 Ashley He but he like posted a video of her She was crying and was so funny. She's like I'm just so happy I'm like that's so cute.

35:33.92 tduval18 I love a good cry for happy engagements I oh oh and Rihanna finally showed her son. We don't know that baby's name. Well she showed her son and she's doing super bowl sunday.

35:38.51 Ashley How yeah ah.

35:49.94 Ashley Oh well wait Oh is she damn it I I'm surprised I didn't have it like planned out like but way before or maybe they did and they just announced it a gold. Well that's exciting.

35:52.44 tduval18 Yeah, and like.

36:00.64 tduval18 They announced it a few months ago like two or three months ago I think but you know you know that's gonna be a I have no fuck I have no fucking clue I have no idea.

36:09.61 Ashley Where is it going to be at and Phoenix I I I know it's on the West Coast I Want to say it's I Phoenix I don't know maybe.

36:18.86 tduval18 Look all I know is we have a tradition my fatherin-law and brotherin-law come over and we get pizza and make wings and we watch it I don't really care about the football part I'm really there for a halftime show and you got me fucked up if I'm not gonna be singing every fucking song. I love her like last year I thought nothing could top last year and I'll be real honest I did not think anything because you know this you got mary j b blash you got Snoop. You got Dr you brought 50 out you had m like that I was in my element like having the time of my life. I was half asleep and then they had that and I was like let's go um and then I had to leave to go watch Euph foria because you know priorities but real. Ah she go fuck it up. You know she is I don't even care. She don't even have to bring anyone out. Well I take that back I would really like her to bring Tom Holen out

37:03.40 Ashley Right.

37:17.44 tduval18 Ah, really like her to bring Tom Holen out for umbrella so he could do his little um but dance just I that's a great opportunity right? there for their Pr teams don't get that in the bag they fucked up but you know she's gonna put on a great show I love her so much.

37:21.33 Ashley Um, oh I was like for what that's funny.

37:36.47 tduval18 And her baby looks just like her. He's just the mini her you know, but yeah, no euphoria doesn't come back just speaking of you for it doesn't come back until next year so like we're all fine. We're all fine. Yeah, next year they haven't even started filming it yet. it's it's mine

37:40.62 Ashley That's q.

37:47.59 Ashley Nowhere at all.

37:54.76 Ashley You know what' crap so workaholics was supposed to have um like they're supposed to be making a workaholics movie like they um they started like building the set for the office. They hired people to like.

37:54.82 tduval18 You know what.

38:11.16 Ashley Be a part of it and all this stuff and paramount last minute was all we can't like they just turned it down and said no.

38:21.90 tduval18 I mean I'm not gonna talk too much shit all paramount because the um.

38:26.49 Ashley I'm just mad because I was really excited about this workaholics movie when they were gonna start filming it.

38:31.68 tduval18 Well, the Teen wolf movies filmed. Um, and it's on Paramount it comes out this month. So I'm happy about that. But that sucks because I would have been pissed if they did some shit like that with the team wolf movie.

38:39.59 Ashley Mad as hell I mean I'm sure another streaming service will pick it up. There's like a billion of them. So it's just one still sucks. Dude Really, it's It's really crazy.

38:45.41 tduval18 There really is. It's so overwhelming how many like Streamman services. There are now.

38:57.81 Ashley And then like they all have stuff that I like like well honestly Peacock has been my favorite. They've really been really stepping it up with like their shows. They have really cool movies I like it for their shows. Peacock is is bomb for.

39:12.16 tduval18 These you did you ever did you ever watch. Um Butlaria I need to finish it. But.

39:15.75 Ashley Their Tv Shows. No I didn't I do that does look really cool to see but I I haven't watched it yet.

39:24.25 tduval18 I do like it a lot like peacock I do think peacock's coming in hot honestly I can't I can't dis Netflix because lately I have been finding some shit on Netflix and you know I did have to look at Hbo just sent me a thing saying my Hbo is going up a dollar and I'm like damn.

39:40.30 Ashley I have not been on Netflix in the longest I love hbo has a bomb ass home and garden shows.

39:43.44 tduval18 But I'm not going get rid of Hbo Best believe it. They do and they have Selena and chef I need another season of that because that that's a wholesome show I love me some Selena Gomez and her trying to cook. It's just that she's so sweet like he she is little.

39:56.70 Ashley I like her trying my girl's getting down now you know what that fuck she's doing.

40:04.97 tduval18 Hey season 3 she is getting down. They posted a video the other day of like her trying to chop like vegetables in season 1 versus now and how much better she is and like I can I love it. Yeah Hbo does have some good ones. They have titans too which I think I told Kevin to watch. But I need to actually watch season 4 of that and obviously euphoria and house of the dragon but you know all my joke aren't going back to like next year it's fine I'm not a mad about it. Okay, it's a little annoying because like I don't really watch too many new shows lately. What is the newest. Ah.

40:39.48 Ashley Um, it was crazy. Oh no, go ahead. This is like off topic.

40:41.80 tduval18 Go ahead go ahead I was going to say on hulu they have the show special forces. Dude I thought I wasn't going to like it. It's they take 16 celebrities just a name a few that are on there Dr Drew

40:50.46 Ashley Ah.

40:57.41 Ashley Um, okay oh Jamie one I think he was canceled okay, like.

41:01.54 tduval18 Mel scary Spice Jamie Lynn Spears Beverly Mitchell I think this is her redemption arc um, Beverly Mitchell used to be on seventh heaven. Um.

41:15.43 Ashley Oh my god speaking of ah her she is on the this homo gardenten show I was watching she's on an episode and tell me how I knew who she was I knew I never watched that because ke no we were watching it and I told Kevin I was like she's.

41:22.12 tduval18 What I'm so proud of you. You've never watched that. Yeah.

41:30.57 Ashley Familiar I was like I fucking know her I was like she's an actress or some shit he's like yeah I think so I was like seventh heaven I don't know how the fuck I knew that I knew it sorry to go off topic I just damn.

41:37.86 tduval18 I used to love I used to love the fuck out of 7 heaven like let me tell you I watched the shit out and you know Derek like teen wolf Derek he was one seventh heaven. That's where I first fell in love with him. Yes, the fuck he was and I fell in love with that man on there.

41:45.53 Ashley Yes, no, but the wedding like as a moon Hacker or was he like an extra.

41:55.33 tduval18 He yeah, no, he was like well he was a main character. He was a side character that became a main character for a while on a storyline and stuck but yet no I love the fuck out of him and then when I saw him as Derek I was like I still love you and he's Superman now and I still love him anyways, back to special forces. They take 16 celebs and they're in the desert of Jordan. And they're doing what the air like the army air force and like the special forces team does so they're doing the drills and stuff and like being treated like cadets and the first episode they lost 2 people in the first episode like 2 people tapped out in the first episode it was wild.

42:26.92 Ashley You know me.

42:31.98 tduval18 Like I was watching and I'm like I could do this and then they had to fall backwards off of a helicopter hovering above the water and make sure they stayed still and fall a certain ways that they land and they don't hit impact and I was like and that's where the fuck I tap out right there gone.

42:46.72 Ashley How I don't I don't want people like I don't know I Justt want to be yelled at and screamed at called maggot and what all that yeah maggot.

42:56.94 tduval18 It's it's really good I think you and Kevin should watch it like I I watched it and I was shocked and then they like have trauma that like unhinges like Jamie Lynn had to do the water and then like did it bad and have like a fool to out panic attack and was like. The last time I had to be in water like that was when I had to try to save my daughter when she was drowning after the rv accident and she's like it like brought up those memories and so I was like oh this is her redemption arc like this is 100% her redemption arc but then I did feel bad for her and like what's her face. Um, Kate from John and Kate plus 8 do you remember that show.

43:26.35 Ashley Wait where oh yeah, yeah, random as hell for the fuck. Did they even think about getting her like that's so random.

43:28.24 tduval18 Like the sex top list Kate Gosling from John and Kate plus 8 the show was like they had like she's on it. Um, yeah, it's it's wild. It's really the most random of celebrities.

43:42.14 tduval18 I don't know it. It is like a random bunch of celebrities. There's a chick from the bachelor which everyone probably knows of Hanna Brown but it's a good show like I watched the first episode and I was actively engaged in it like I wasn't like oh let me throw this on and I can listen to it in the background and be on my phone like I was watching it because I was like wow this is an intense.

43:56.68 Ashley I would literally only I would only do that for melby just so I could be on the show with her and like hang out and stuff that was that that would be The only reason.

44:08.16 tduval18 Because she smell be you sound like the people with the golden globes I didn't even watch them but all I kept seeing is everyone kept shooting their shot at Brad Pitt like he he was there and um. Like they everyone kept like being like hey brab hit like just like and I was like that's so funny. But yeah, you should watch it. It's called special for forces forces I can't talk today.

44:37.61 Ashley The um.

44:38.10 tduval18 But we're moving into the new year so I said my word of the year is peace. What is your word of the year

44:45.75 Ashley I't even I did I don't even know let me think okay, ah my word of the year is gonna be.

44:59.96 tduval18 Clean out my desk.

45:00.16 Ashley What do I want lang.

45:05.57 tduval18 Deliver is the deliver is a pretty girl she I was doing the Barney theme song and you the best it's fine.

45:11.30 Ashley She is who the best. Oh my God I don't know.

45:22.54 Ashley What did I say last year travel nice and go nowhere. Let me think yeah, but that's I've been to Maryland before.

45:24.81 tduval18 Yes. You came to me bitch. Okay, well you could pretend like it wasn't and you had the greatest time of your life spending time with me. Thank you, Thank you? Thank you Very much.

45:37.88 Ashley Did have the greatest time in my life I did that that heart is not a lie I think you so much How about.

45:53.82 Ashley Kind of I don't know I feel like also the cause I'm on the spot and I think about it.

46:03.72 Ashley Oh my god ah let's nothing dolores. She's on my shoulder and then Allen moved and she like fell. No, she's fine.

46:05.90 tduval18 What.

46:13.16 tduval18 She's fine. She's on your shore.

46:18.00 Ashley Peace That's a good one Mm now.

46:20.96 tduval18 You can do peace.

46:32.34 Ashley What is my point of the year what about what what do I want to do this year.

46:41.90 Ashley Venture is that like explore like go more do I should go and see more things. That's what I should do.

46:47.95 tduval18 Adventure hey that's good. We want to start our girls our yearly girls trip this year too so we should do that.

46:55.28 Ashley And we need to think about where we're gonna go.

47:05.90 Ashley Somewhere cool on B and b.

47:14.29 Ashley Are you there? Oh um.

47:15.78 tduval18 I am I like spaced out for a second. Um and then I think last year we did on this episode. Our goal is for the podcast this year and I think my goal is to be better consistent with the podcast.

47:28.37 Ashley More consistent I want to try to like I remember I know how Rachel had brought it up about doing another like something or another. Yeah.

47:37.90 tduval18 Give away. I think we should do that and because I know he listens and get pat on the podcast. We've really been working with it for him for so long. We really we need to we need to do this shit. But I think that is all that we have for this year

47:47.98 Ashley Oh yeah.

48:01.49 tduval18 Do we still want to do song of the week or or okay hold on hold on.

48:04.36 Ashley Let's do song of the week I'm I mean I would have to think them really quick. But.

48:16.78 Ashley We wait.

48:17.14 tduval18 Song of the week um I have to think about this too because I haven't really been listening to music as much I've been listening to a lot of podcasts and reading.

48:27.42 Ashley Oh my God I have been on a roll with Conspiracies Fuck Man I Love a good conspiracy podcast.

48:33.15 tduval18 You always are you know what? I'm going to be super ass basic and I'm sure everyone's been listening to this song a lot but I'm doing the cramps googoo muck. Which is the song that they played in Wednesday and it's just a fucking vibe. So all I'm just gonna be basic because I have listened to that a lot. So.

48:52.47 Ashley Oh aha.

49:04.51 Ashley I'm I'm just gonna go keep it with theme and do crown the empire immortalize immortalize, but but but but love you, it was there.

49:13.35 tduval18 I Don't think I've heard that song but okay, sorry oh cool, cool, cool, cool. Um I have a bit like.

49:18.32 Ashley It's one of their singles on their new album. They're gonna release who Google.

49:28.21 tduval18 I've realized I've reverted back to doing when I do listen to music I listen to like the same album over and over or like the same artist. Do you know the fuck artist I was listening to the other day 2004 hit me up Raven Simone's fucking cd I was jamming.

49:39.70 Ashley Who. Okay, new.

49:48.50 tduval18 Jam into that and like I could not stop listening to it and then I was really mad because you can't download at least on Apple music. They don't have the cheeah girls cd which like I have the Cd but I wanted to listen to it and they don't have it on there and I was really mad and the only version of Cinderella that they have is the fucking barcelona 1 which isn't bad. It's not the same It's it doesn't hit it doesn't hit the way that when you want to listen to that so that's where I've been at lately of just like relistening to the same fucking Cds that I've listened to or songs that I've listened to if I'm not listening to a murder podcast.

50:07.25 Ashley Um, oh yeah, but it's not. It's not the same. It doesn't just do don't hit it.

50:21.25 Ashley Heard that same old single.

50:25.17 tduval18 I Actually I actually want to go through side note before we sign off I Want to go through the songs that I have downloaded and like get rid of ones that I Really actively do not listen to because you know how there's like certain songs you'll put it on shuffle and then you're like Nope and you just skip. There's.

50:40.87 Ashley Um, yeah, always flip it.

50:43.61 tduval18 I'm like I'm gonna that is a goal of mine This year is to get rid of the songs that I always skip.

50:50.52 Ashley I Think that's a good goal saves you with skip nothing and um.

50:52.40 tduval18 Yeah, but I have like 2000 songs so it gets really overwhelming when I actually start to think about it. But I'm gonna do it one of these days I'm just gonna go through. But you know who I'm not getting rid of because I just opened up my music I am not getting rid of my the academy is because fuck it up I love when they come 1.

51:15.44 Ashley Aren't they wait. No never mindd it I I know that I was going to say I thought they were on tour but that's why I'm like I don't now. But that's why I stopped I was like I don't know.

51:15.91 tduval18 Close the door and take the stairs up or down ups and down the Academy is why. Oh look at good for them.

51:34.33 Ashley I Don't know I don't let me confirm that.

51:44.13 Ashley Tam I Have no idea I don't know why I mean.

51:47.79 tduval18 Ah that's my well I think this has been a nice productive. We are gonna do better at being there for you guys and you know posting more and being a little bit more active than we previously were last year was a really rough year for us on being active. Um. And we are going to change that and make sure that we are back and better than ever always let us know what you want to hear from us if you've watched any in Georgia if you are a talk to text person or just texting or voice noting um, we'll put some. Polls on the insta and we will be back next week with another episode of side notes. My.

52:28.20 Ashley And it's be.