Ride 7: Enhancing Your Voice
Episode 7, Jan 22, 2021, 12:48 AM
In the first 3 seconds people decided with whether or not they want to hear from you. It’s not what you’re saying but how you say it. The how is refereeing to the sounds words first and the words second.
Don’t speak word from words but express the emotions.
AI - Intellectual Intelligence - causing a mono tone speaking voice.
Ecclesiastes 3:7 - A time to keep silence, and a time to speak.
Ephesians 4:29 - but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers.
- Why do you want to enhance how you sound you can:
Make money - Close sales, make better connections, be invited back again
Tell your story - Your story matters but the voice used to tell your story matters more.
Add value - Keep people engaged longer
- The best speakers speak from the heart
Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. When you speak, you’re transferring energy, feelings and emotions.
Spiritual context — abundance is less about material conditions, but instead around an appreciation of life in its fullness, joy. It about the strength your mind, body and soul.
What is in your heart?
Process and dissolve what has already built up
Learn to forgive and let go and to do that often
Create boundaries, filters and a strategy
- Your voice is an instrument that can be trained to do whatever you want it to do.
Tips to making your voice better:
- Talk louder - People think the older the louder you talk, the more aggressive.
- Melody - Words don’t have notes. Focus on creating notes similar to that of a piano.
- Ascend up the Steps - walking up the steps makes you appear happy and more interseting. Deceasing makes you sound down.
Record yourself, practice expressing different emotions